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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/19/2004 11:35:26 AM

Doug04

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Hello friends

Let me get this straight!!!

When I said (partner) I meant to have your SUB/DOM!
about "BDSM things" I meant you practicing the fetish with your sub/dom !
Sorry if I was a little confused...

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/19/2004 5:19:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: Doug04
When I said (partner) I meant to have your SUB/DOM!
about "BDSM things" I meant you practicing the fetish with your sub/dom !
Sorry if I was a little confused...

Yeah, but did you mean practicing or playing? Cuz I sometimes practice - throw a singletail at the bondage bear, for example - but that's different from playing (which is what I call a "scene").

So do you mean how often do I play? Or how often do I practice technique in order to maintain/improve proficiency?

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/19/2004 6:03:51 PM

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What is this "partner" of which you speak?

She and my partner are at Home Depot buying paint.

Duh.

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/19/2004 11:15:04 PM

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Practice, play, whatever... not nearly often enough!

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 12:48:32 AM

MistressDREAD

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hmmmm
define partner?
would this be
a Mate a Love
interest or sumone
I met at a munchie
or the community
ferrol cats?
~snickers~
[thats a joke for
those whom know
what Im referring to.]

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 12:57:36 AM

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ahhhh now I see
welllllllll I dont have
a sub nor a Dom
soooooooo I guess
that answer would
be to this one. None.
[but I do have sum really
nice slaves whom Im
playing with as I write
actually and have daily
since I arrived home here.]
M/s and Dominance is a
24/7 thing for Me and Mine.

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 1:25:39 AM

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I practice some of BDSM everyday I am around a female! Even if nothing more than getting a clerk in a store to do something extra for me (D/s) By gaining her trust enough for her to want serve me beyond what her job calls for. And making sure I praise her for that service! In that way I create a desire for her to serve me! I practice using my voice and manerism in a manner with female friends that when in a meeting female friends ask may they serve me a cup of coffee.

And when a sub friend of mine is around there is always a slap on the ass, a yank of the hair, pinch of a nipple, or some form of pain or pleasure to remind them who and what I am and who and what they are to me. That they are my submissive and that I honor and cherish them for their gift of submission to me.

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 5:54:03 AM

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Not practicing...
Just playing

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 6:40:20 AM

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When do I do the voodoo I do?

Pretty much every day I will...

Practice with some of my toys
Smack my slave on the ass with whatever is handy at the moment (cutting board while making dinner)
Do something Evil to my slave (walk-by bitings are fairly common in my house.)

As far as longer sessions...planned scenes.. we may do those once or twice a week.

Not sure if this is what you were getting at....but there ya go.

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 12:37:45 PM

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Partner? No partner, but I do have a kinky roomie I play at play parties. We negotiated a no play at home, no sex agreement to keep complications to a minimum. Think "Will & Grace" television show with a heterosexual Will.

As far as how often do I live the lifestyle? Everyday in my contacts with friends, my search for subs, preparing for or going to munches and parties, making or acquiring toys etc.

I have male sub friends I also play at parties.

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 1:06:27 PM

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Parties..
What do you mean with parties..
Have you some parties where the people can play around?
As I told before , I'm a begginer and I think these parties aren't usual here in Brazil
Let me know

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RE: How often do you practice BDSM things? - 7/20/2004 1:49:53 PM

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I am not aware of the BDSM scene in Brazil. I suggest you look in adult bookshops for monthly local adult magazines and check in their ad section to see what events are going on.

Here in southern Ontario parties are generally broken into 2 types, fet and play. Fet parties are held in local bars or nightclubs, you pay at the door. They may have a dance floor, are generally used to show off hard bodies and fet wear with a few lifestylers to scene on the limited equipment.Fet wear is usually mandatory. Play parties are held in local bars or nightclubs, admission is by presold ticket only, you must have attended at least 2 munches or be vouched for by a known member of the community. These are usually lifestylers and their friends, there is good access to equipment, the focus is on the play and socializing. Fet parties may or may6 not have Dungeon Monitors to ensure everyone's safety and comfort, play parties (here) always have DMs.

Here is a link to one of the better play parties in Ontario, It will help you to understand much better than I can. http://www.darkangellair.com/

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