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greeneyedreamer -> Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:43:42 AM)

I would love to out all of the doms on CM who have wronged their Submissives... Can we do that on the boards? It is sad that they are allowed to move from one to another wrecking our lives... causing emotional distress... Just asking




colouredin -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:45:04 AM)

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

(ive said my piece)




mnottertail -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:47:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

I would love to out all of the doms on CM who have wronged their Submissives... Can we do that on the boards? It is sad that they are allowed to move from one to another wrecking our lives... causing emotional distress... Just asking


I would love to out all of the subs/slaves that wreck lives, cause emotional distress, but that is not allowed either.

So, we have a drink and a laugh, learn, and live, write a book, blow our brains out.

Ernest Hemingway 




slavejali -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:49:15 AM)

No outing on the boards and I can understand the reason.

Here is my own living example:

I met my Master on a chat. I was warned by so many people not to have anything to do with him for various reasons. I trusted my own ability to discern his character. I was right, they were wrong.

I think what it comes down to is, each person should take personal responsibility for the choices they make.





velvetears -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:50:13 AM)

Take responsibility for your own choices and actions.  We are all adults here and don't need anyone "warning" us about anyone.  All it would boil down to is one persons interpretation of another anyway.  Anytime a sub felt "wounded" she could post about how horrible and rotten her dom was?  That would be unbiased and fair? 

Personally i don't want anyone informing me of their experience with someone to warn me about that person.  i trust my own instincts and good common sense to guide me far better than an irate submissive with a vendetta on their mind. 

If you get into a bad relationship and get hurt - move on, don't make matters worse by trying to get even in the form of "warning others"  No one wants that kind of "help"




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:52:09 AM)

So every time a Dom and a sub have a bad breakup, they should be outted?
No, dont think so.  Wrong for you is right for someone else. I can just imagine what some of my former pets miht say about meafter I let them go... doesnt make me "evil" for hurting them, it made us incompatible.

DV




RedMagic1 -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:52:32 AM)

I can't trust anything you post if you think that toxic relationships are only the fault of one person, not two.

Should I put you on a list?




mnottertail -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:53:30 AM)

They would tell you that you should have spelled it as 'might', I should think.

Just out here being helpful old me.

Sorry to have outted you DV.

Ron




RCdc -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:55:47 AM)

No.
It's called blacklisting.  Read the Terms of Service and the specifics on blacklisting.
And I find anyone willing to do such an act lacking in integrity themselves.
 
the.dark.




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:57:08 AM)

DAmn you ron... you try typing with long nails and see how YOU do.
Great, now im blacklisted...
woe is me




IrishMist -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:57:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

I would love to out all of the doms on CM who have wronged their Submissives... Can we do that on the boards? It is sad that they are allowed to move from one to another wrecking our lives... causing emotional distress... Just asking

And who made you judge and jury?




Jeffff -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 7:59:18 AM)

Ron hurt me!!

Jeffwey




akisha -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:01:55 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO

(ive said my piece)



Totally agree with colouredin

OP: There are two sides to every story and then there is the truth. Who is to play God and decide who's side is right. Get a grip. There are risks in life, relationships being one of the bigger ones. Pull up your big girl panties and deal with it.

You know how many whiny assed ex's there are there that would love to trash and black ball former partners? PLEASE!!! 

Learn from the experience and move on!




mnottertail -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:04:34 AM)

Administrative Announcments....first post.

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the difference between sub and slave is the way that an individual sees it, there is no universal dictionary definition.

You may not personally insult someone on the boards.

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Pro Dommes charge because they do and they can, don't start a post bemoaning it, and don't bump up one of the million old posts about it.

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No, the community is not one of tight-knit loving and tolerance for anything of any kind including kinky fuckin sex.

The only thing that has never been remotely argued here is what constitutes 'no-limits' slavery, wherein Nazis do not make an appearance.

If you EXPECT the Spanish Inquisition you are not kinky enough for this board, go the fuck home.

Have I about covered the last 5 years or so out here?


Ron




KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:05:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

I would love to out all of the doms on CM who have wronged their Submissives... Can we do that on the boards? It is sad that they are allowed to move from one to another wrecking our lives... causing emotional distress... Just asking


Only if they are allowed to blacklist you for the stress, and life wrecking you may or may not cause from you blacklisting them.  Wanna go back to kindergarten and RELEARN that little "Do unto others" rule, or do we have that under control?  Don't you remember that when you point one finger, you have 3 others looking right back at you?




greeneyedreamer -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:09:57 AM)

Oh MY GOD! I didn't mean to start a flurry. I will zip my mouth! smiles... and yeah the ones who go from Submissive to submissive trying to gain trust and then throwing them out like trash... no explanation, no email or contact... THEY SHOULD be stopped.... hey if someone where going around breaking glass car windows we'd stop them... but that's just imoho.




mnottertail -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:11:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

DAmn you ron... you try typing with long nails and see how YOU do.
Great, now im blacklisted...
woe is me



You have outted yourself; baby, a TRUE Mistress would be having her boy doing the typing...........as he is licking her stilletos.

Ron 





Jeffff -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:11:38 AM)

You forgot how to tell the difference between fake and weal

Jeff




Jeffff -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:13:01 AM)

Cept everyone is different..... your asshole is some one else's dream date.:)

Jeff




kittinSol -> RE: Outing the Doms who Wrong their Subs (3/11/2008 8:18:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Cept everyone is different..... your asshole is some one else's dream date.:)



Dream date, or cream bait... it's all poetry.




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