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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 9:19:07 AM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		I meant that some men or women for that matter are so desperate or can get so desperate that they will settle for anybody. Does that make sense?

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 9:53:34 AM   
colouredin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyslilpookie

Hello there, I have to be honest with you some people "here" and I am not saying on the message boards but CM itself are desperate and just looking for a lay. I am however just here for the boards. I am human I like to see what other people have to say on the same stuff what my Master and I do and get insight and exchange ideas on how we get make it more better and exciting. Also I get insight on how I can be the best slave I can be for my Master. Just my 2 cents.


gosh thats a sad idea that people cant get laid outside of BDSM and so use that purely for sex poor people :( I would also suggest that it cant be many surely and most of those would end up being disapointed.


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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 10:05:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Desperation is never attractive. Knowing what you want, and going after it, following your bliss is highly attractive.

If your ex won't stop harassing you on phone or in r/l, I'd call an attorney. Most people don't want to incur a law suit for harassment/stalking.

If it's just online, block and delete.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 12:20:47 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Desperate??? Not me i was looking for someone sure but i was not desperate.  I found my Master but that was after meeting some "frogs".

You know that saying  ( i am paraphrasing here)  Those who don't stand for everyone will fall for anyone.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 12:39:02 PM   
junecleaver


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Status: offline 		Personally, I don't think it's desperate.  Many people look down on online dating.  When they ask my Dominant and I how we met and we say 'on the internet'...they look at us like we are somehow less in love. 

He's just trying to make you feel bad about yourself and you should ignore him.


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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 1:16:51 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		i have never considered meeting people online to be desperate, it is just another way to meet people, either for friendships or for possible relationships.  The internet can be a useful tool in finding like minded people.  When i think of how many long term friends i have made thanks to this funny little box i am quite thankful.  

Your ex sounds like a jackass. 

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 3:18:56 PM   
Daddyslilpookie


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Status: offline 		junecleaver I am not looking down on anyone or online dating if it worked for you great. I'm happy,it worked out for you, you are in love. I was just sayin some people in general who are on this site you know what I mean, troll around here. Also to the original OP if your jack ass ex starts writing you threatening or unwanted emails if I were you I would save them and show them to the police. If it goes that far I'm not saying that it is but just be cautious. I have been in your shoes a few times and it has gone as far as a restaining order not fun. maybe that's why I'm so bitter. Tell your ex to fuck off. Good luck to you.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 5:25:03 PM   
JasonF


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Status: offline 		I was thinking about this one day.

Not CM in particular, but online dating.

I have /no idea/ where I would meet new people in a "safe to date" environment outside of online. Work has complications, I'm out of school... so where else? Going trolling in a bar? That's even more random than online.

I think it's just an extension of things -- just like most people couldn't imagine doing basic things anymore (how long has it been since you've written a "real" letter?) without the internet, I couldn't imagine having found my love anywhere but the internet.


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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 7:08:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Stop letting him be part of your thoughts and actions.  You making this post says you still care what he does and says.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 7:52:44 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMagnolia

Yes, I agree with Steel. I want to be eloquent and witty, but all I can muster is to tell your ex to suck my arse.

On the other hand sabirah, you could tell your ex to suck your arse. Either is fine with me.
Ach!..You just want some arse sucking to happen!..shameful!!!~wink~..Tempting

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 8:03:09 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		People who say something as absurd as "I need someone to complete me"......
 
 Are nothing more than desperation, waiting to happen. Strength comes from a unity of self completion. Weakness exists when something is missing.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 8:37:13 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		You just be quiet there, thanks Miss Tempting. (I'm going to share the video with you).

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/12/2008 8:42:34 PM   
sabirah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Stop letting him be part of your thoughts and actions.  You making this post says you still care what he does and says.


I thank you for your comment LuckyAlbatross, while I must disagree with you. This post is and was all about me, the justification that I sought out on this message board was purely selfish motives to help me see things clearly, and or atleast view the opinions of other,I am  reaching out, and  beyond his control. 
If it was  "his  thoughts", "his actions" that "I cared" for,
I would surely of closed my account in shame for ever being seen here.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/16/2008 8:58:06 AM   
MistressDollys


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Desperate? Hell no! Wanting something that's within our reach and wanting to grow as humans is a natural response in our world and
should be what all people do in life. There is so much out there to learn and do in this short time on earth i like to call a vacation,
that we should all be free to do what makes us feel good as long as no one else gets hurt in the process. Have fun, be yourself and find
that part of you that we're all searching for. As far as the ex is concerned. Please be careful. Anyone who is
stalking a person is someone who should be as far away from you as possible.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/16/2008 9:18:21 AM   
domahpet


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Status: offline 		channeling Forest Gump here.
desperate is as desperate does.
your x (and mine) is a perfect example of that.
block him, then join with us-
we have cookies, AND jackets!

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/16/2008 3:16:07 PM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		Quiet desperation is the human way -
most of us have moments of desperation - but using the internet to meet people that you would normally not met is not desperation - its just common sense.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/16/2008 4:19:35 PM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		You know, after browsing some of the profiles here with the endless journal entries whining about the lack of 'real' people I'd much rather be desperate than conceited.

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RE: feeling desperate - 3/17/2008 1:40:51 AM   
blacksword404


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Status: offline 		This site is just a place to meet like minded people. No different that going to a club.

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