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Stephann -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/19/2008 3:37:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: colouredin Im just waiting for a Women: How to Find a Woman here :P Men: How to find a Woman touches on most of that [;)] Women looking for women typically need to do the legwork, have decent profiles, photos, and focus on searching for women who meet their criteria. Women seeking women have a leg up; the number of bisexual verses 'straight' women are roughly 50/50 (compared to men seeking men, where bisexual to straight men are roughly 10/90.) To boot, many bisexual women are only looking for other women (though often times, they're already involved with a male partner.) For ladies seeking other women; lots of the female seeking female profiles here are actually men. Demands for cybersex, photos, or cam (especially without reciprocation) or any activity that clearly shows a focus on sex over personality are the hallmarks of such men. Same with a desire to only chat or exchange emails, with repeated declines to speak on phone, etc. Just because she has ten thousand pretty photos of the same girl, doesn't mean she's a woman; it could just mean she's been doing this for a while. Regards, Stephan

LadyPact -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/19/2008 7:41:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: chiaThePet Let me just say "Fuck you for being straight Stephan". Just sayin, ya know. Oh wait....... you're straight, I couldn't fuck you. Crap. Oh wait....... this IS a kinky kind of a place, ya know. Well then. Oh wait....... my kink wouldn't necessarily be your kink. Aw fuck me. Oh wait....... that would be topping from the bottom. Let me just say, "nevermind". chia* (the pet) Yeah, well, I've been inclined to say it's a shame he's a Dom. There just don't seem to be that many submissives who are South Park enthusiasts.

herJourney -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/20/2008 7:45:14 AM)
Amen, Stephen! i have done just what Stephen has posted over the past 4 months or so, one of the main reasons is that i was flooded with e-mails and begain to get that scary overwhelming feeling tha some of you may know. i have turned on my profile, in the past, so that One that i have contacted can take the time to read my journals, profile and to see my intrest checklist and then close it off again. Thank You Stephen for the effort that You have made in these two posts :) ~herJourney~

UncleNasty -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/20/2008 8:49:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann I've had all manner of oddness happen in meeting people online. When I was in Michigan, I had a girl in Saskatchewan that I'd talked with for three months. We agreed to meet. First she told me she had plane tickets to come to me (listing the flight numbers, etc.) No show. Then she told me she was driving. Later she called claiming to be in Detroit, only a few hours away (I didn't have caller ID at the time.) I didn't hear again from her for two weeks. Another girl claimed to be driving to see me in Texas from Arizona. She claimed to be halfway on the last call I ever got from her. I had similar experiences with two women from this site. One claimed to have called from a halfway point, spent the night in that city then turned around and went home the next day. All allegedly, of course. The other made three separate plans with me. Two to come to see me and the thrid for me to go see her. She bailed herself at the last minute on here end, the second claiming to have left her home and been about 1/3 of the way here. My trip to her she just bailed. My questions are many, but they all revolve around an assumption that they weren't telling the truth to begin with, and lead me to something like "What the fuck do they get out of treating people these ways?" Anyone with insights into this? Uncle Nasty

Stephann -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/20/2008 10:32:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UncleNasty My questions are many, but they all revolve around an assumption that they weren't telling the truth to begin with, and lead me to something like "What the fuck do they get out of treating people these ways?" Anyone with insights into this? Uncle Nasty I've had the time to figure some answers to this out. Some women (this applies to men as well, I'm sure) enjoy the fantasy relationships online gives them. It's all the glitz and glamor of being in love, without ever actually having to break off your current situation. Bored, married with six kids, and an overweight, underappreciative, misogynist husband who barely pays the rent? Obviously, divorce is a nightmare. Much easier to sit at home, and 'date' through the internet. It has all the shiny new happiness without any of the risks of being rejected because she's also overweight/under motivated/under educated. It is this infatuation with 'virtual' love that ends up hurting folks. It's why I stopped permitting any sort of attachment to a person I hadn't seen in the flesh, though charlotte and I ended up breaking that rule (after the tickets had been purchased.) Stephan

AMaster -> RE: For women: how to find a man here (3/20/2008 10:42:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: StormsSlave I absolutely, 150% agree with the OP. If a sub here doesn't like the men who approach her, then she should approach the men she likes. I have yet to meet the man who didn't like it when I expressed my desire to be with them in an open and frank way, never rude or crude, just blunt and honest. So far, I've had 100% success with that approach. [:D] If for some reason someone doesn't suit you, move on. Eventually, you're bound to meet interesting people, and maybe make a few friends. edited for grammar I agree with you and many others here. I would be flattered if approached. ( Note: unlike many others here, I do answer all e-mails. Even if it only to say "no thanks") [&:]

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