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Suggestion - 3/14/2008 6:21:30 AM

LadyKayra

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Hello All,

I am trying to come up with some Idea's when it comesto rules or protols that is done at home with your Dom. Or what do you allow your bottom do when you are together? Example, Greeting at the door, where your allowed to sit, and deciding what you or your submissive is allowed to wear?

Thanks in Advance

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RE: Suggestion - 3/14/2008 6:27:16 AM

Lashra

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When my sub greets me in private he gets down on his knees and hugs my legs. I stroke his hair and I find its a great way to reconnect. When we are home alone he is naked (Unless its really cold) as I like him that way. He makes sure that my needs/wants/desires are taken care of before his own. When we are in bed watching tv, he knows I will lay my head on his chest while he strokes my hair. He reminds me of my medication times. When we are out and its raining, he holds the umbrella and goes to get the car while I wait inside. He carries packages, does all the heavy lifting. When its cold he goes out and starts the car or cleans the snow off of it.

He really makes my life happy and content. Of course he gets his too as all relationships should be a two way street.

Good luck,
~Lashra

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RE: Suggestion - 3/14/2008 6:30:30 AM

MissSCD

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I am a high protocol Mistress. I have rules, but it sounds like you are wanting to go into a more domestic set which is fine and good for your relationship.
There are a lot of things they can do for you such as cleaning, cooking greeting you in submission (which gets on my nerves),
My slave is supposed to answer me yes ma'am or Mistress_Jan. He is never to address another dom/me without my permission.
We both have been so busy with work that most of the time we go to dinner and fall asleep on the couch.

Best wishes.

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RE: Suggestion - 3/15/2008 12:49:03 AM

MrSuperior

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Mr. Superior says:

Rules are good! Subs need rules, so Doms, show them the way!

If you ever feel lost, ask a tour guide. For everything else...ask Mr. Superior!

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RE: Suggestion - 3/15/2008 10:13:48 AM

DiurnalVampire

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When Fox is at my house, he greets me when I get home from work on his knees, eyes down and with a fresh cup of coffee. If he has time, he wil have gotten the housework finished (since I HATE to vacuum and to do dishes, those are his chores). When necessary, he asks permission to use the rest room, to clear dishes, to answer his phone, anything that is not sitting next to me on the couch. Beyond that we have vey few real protocols.
He has a few for communication, since he isnt allowed to move off CM and chat with anyone without my permission. He isnt allowed to photograph anyone other than me or his relatives without permission becasue of a prior problem with misunderstanding (some girls think that no matter what a guy says, if they want you to stand in a picture for them, they want you... sigh)

Good luck. Dont OVER do it with rules right off, they can get overwhelming and occasionally get in the way of training. Too much to remember right off and a sub can forget teh important stuff.

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