lalbobbilynn
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i was married for 17yrs Sir, thus i have made that passage twice annually for that time frame; not so bad really. My 13y/o respectfully requested to stay with the children's father. i may loath the man, yet i will never keep my children from their father. Our issues are just that, Ours. i have about 70 folks in my Clan up this way. i thought it would be a good move for myself as well as my children (i had my son all summer, Thanksgiving; sent the 5y/o South for xmas, and bought the 13y/o a laptop for spring break instead of flying him back up) i have been here a year and one month. i truly felt the move was in the best interest of all concerned. i was sleeping in my van before i moved to Mich due to the extreme fights between my ex and i. i left a 5bedroom, three bath, two car garage, with five dumb ass running/working cars. i fought for none of it. There are times it is NOT about what You are leaving but rather what You are gaining. i capitulate; i was gravely mistaken about the move up here. My ex has agreed to take both children for June so i can move one hour South of where he is. i will then have the children the rest of the summer until school resumes. My ex is about our son toughing it out. Lord i loath that! The jocular thing is my son would never utter the word nigger, as he has four cousins who are African American (my brother adopted 12 children from foster care!) Furthermore my son knows what it is like to be called names for Your skin color, and lastly ....... not bragging but my son is semi intelligent; he knows i will bitch slap him into next month right in front of the police station if he were to ever utter such a word! Titles aside, people are just that, people. i intend to impress upon my son's school and the superintendent that i am the wrong cunt to be fucking with; in a matter of speaking! BTW Sir, You KNOW You are doing right by Your children, and that is the point. Excellent form, if i may say Sir! Deferentially~ b.~
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