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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/10/2009 5:46:12 PM   
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I hate that I got an email from a friend, her husbands cancer metastisized to his liver. Sigh. I can't pull out enough good cheer today to even make it through a phone call and that makes me feel selfish, that my fucked up day is in the way of a friends agony.
Camille...perhaps she doesn't want good cheer? The situation sounds awful and maybe she just wants to know you are there for her. Hug.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/10/2009 5:50:04 PM   
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I don't mean that she wants good cheer.. but I can't even pull myself out of my own unhappiness long enough to call her tonight. Crap that doesn't even make sense.

I don't have any thing to give right now, and that makes me feel awful inside. If I were to call her, I would cry. She doesn't need me to be reacting off my own emotions, she needs the strength of friends and right now I have no strength.

Nothing I have going on compares to her, to him.

But stuff happened today and I'm just a mess.

That still probably doesn't make sense.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/10/2009 5:53:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: camille65

I don't mean that she wants good cheer.. but I can't even pull myself out of my own unhappiness long enough to call her tonight. Crap that doesn't even make sense.

I don't have any thing to give right now, and that makes me feel awful inside. If I were to call her, I would cry. She doesn't need me to be reacting off my own emotions, she needs the strength of friends and right now I have no strength.

Nothing I have going on compares to her, to him.

But stuff happened today and I'm just a mess.

That still probably doesn't make sense.



We have All been there. Like my sister being diagnosed with breast cancer and I am thinking, "I cant handle one more thing" as if Its all me, me , me.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/10/2009 6:46:18 PM   
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Camille, she may want someone she CAN cry with...your reasons for crying are yours..her's hers..sometimes we just need someone to share the tears with.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/10/2009 6:52:25 PM   
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camille, let her know that the news has affected you.  Try telling her something like, "My friend, my heart is breaking for you right now, and I don't have the words to make things better right now.  But, I am here, and I love you."

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 6:13:43 AM   
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This is good thread. I am sorry for all illness in familys.
I am hate that I have email from collarme man saying that people here think I troll because I speak truth.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 6:25:51 AM   
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i'm with poen. sometimes a good cry is the very thing you need to get rid of some grief tension. then you can make an awful joke, laugh/gurgle, and get on with the task of surviving. i think there are times when you can't cry too much. and it feels good to cry with someone who loves you.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 7:26:56 AM   
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I cry when I need to.  My saying is that crying makes the bad stuff flow out of your soul and cleanses what is currently there.  I generally feel alot better after a good cry.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 8:42:18 AM   
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I hate it when I go to a Zumba class- an aerobic Latin rythmn class.....I only make it 15 minutes. Not becuase I was huffing and puffing( I was), but because the pain in my arches was too much! Grrr. I guess I'll try spinning or stick to water. But I love dance beats!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 8:43:53 AM   
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at least you can dance lushy.  i'm actually thinking of taking some kind of dance class when i'm a little settled back in salt lake.  hopefully i won't take anyone out with my out of control flailing limbs lol

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 8:44:15 AM   
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Maybe you just need different shoes, Lushy! 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 8:45:19 AM   
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try Nia. Its like modern dance. You can move however your body wants!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 8:47:22 AM   
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Maybe you just need different shoes, Lushy! 


I have tried everything. My feet cant handle rubber souls. Thats what they want you in is gym shoes.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 9:07:38 AM   
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Camille, she may want someone she CAN cry with...your reasons for crying are yours..her's hers..sometimes we just need someone to share the tears with.

poenkitten



and the special people in your life (poen) let you get the tears out while not being judgemental or thinking I am weak.  It was a hard difficult talk we had, but I needed to hear it again and have it reinforced.

I loves my poen she is just so special and awesome.  We understand each other. or rather learning and so close with her.

And I double ditto that damn cough, I will be so happy when she can manage a full nights sleep without coughing wrecking havoc on her sleep.  Just kills me that I can do something to help

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 9:11:32 AM   
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i'm with poen. sometimes a good cry is the very thing you need to get rid of some grief tension. then you can make an awful joke, laugh/gurgle, and get on with the task of surviving. i think there are times when you can't cry too much. and it feels good to cry with someone who loves you.


Angel I so agree.  I so glad I am here when BP goes on a trip I am so glad Im now there to comfort her as its just so hard on her. I mentioned some where that crying cleanses the soul for that period of time and to me it does help

edited to add......duh see my previous post ROFL

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 9:13:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Maybe you just need different shoes, Lushy! 


I have tried everything. My feet cant handle rubber souls. Thats what they want you in is gym shoes.


Have you tried putting arch support insoles in your shoes? I have to add them to almost every single pair of shoes I wear. But gawd, it's like night and day.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 9:57:30 AM   
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...I brush my teeth in the morning and a filling pops out...great, now before I fly home for 9 days for a holiday on friday I also have to pop in to the dentist on thursday and can't attend work that afternoon  So despite having to travel ages to get down to the dentist I also loose out a chunk of salary and the pleasure to work with a friend of mine on that particular shift...am so fed up of my permanent hassles over here all the time...once you dare to think you are fine and sorted, the next one comes along


I feel for you Phoenix.  Sat night on the way to the dungeon I had one tooth that just up and decided it was going to shear off the back part of the tooth.  Whats sad was that tooth didnt hurt it was the one next to it.

I hate that there is no way I can afford all the dental care I need. *sigh*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 10:21:40 AM   
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savage  kisses loves ya beautiful

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 11:34:07 AM   
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i hate when i'm trying to cut something with a knife that just doesn't "cut it".

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RE: I hate it when........ - 3/11/2009 2:29:53 PM   
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Big hugs back to tammy

love the kisses :)

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