Daddysredhead
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Joined: 11/6/2005 From: Northern (yet still part of the South) Virginia Status: offline
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I second Troll's post, Aynne. Your life is yours alone to live, but if you can get "unstuck" from where you are now, and move forward to your future and the rest of your life... wow, I seriously would say "GO FOR IT!!!" I've been having this same conversation with a friend of mine and can't tell you how being afraid to decide to move just turns into a horrible decision to stay. Control your destiny, strong lady... you are much stronger than you think. I lived in fear of the unknown and what will they all say, until one day I realized that this is not a dress rehearsal and I could live my life in misery or possible happiness. After a while, the pain of staying outweighed the fear of leaving, and I just did it. Haven't looked back. No one else lives your life but you... make it count. *hugs* Red
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