LadyHibiscus
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Joined: 8/15/2005 From: Island Of Misfit Toys Status: offline
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And so I am not interrupting my hug..... a mini RANTTTTT. OMG. In my journal I wrote this bit about men who act all interested, evaporate, then come back all "hey! what about me!". Today I got cmail from a guy who went totally OFF on me because I did not INSTANTLY RESPOND TO EVERY CALL. Srsly. Back in June, we were talking, and in the space of two days I got two calls and three PM's, and I don't have the YIM on all the time, so the PM's all came at one time. That SAME weekend, there was yet another death in the family (I have gone to I think seven funerals in the last four months, family and friends) so I wrote saying that the kumquats had hit the jugular and I wouldn't be in touch for a few days. Evidently, my paltry note WAS NOT ENOUGH. So I got a LECTURE. On my Rudeness and General Bad Behaviour. (and here's a hint, boys, if you want a domina to LIKE you, don't start the day with the Lecture) Well, my response to the Lecture was, Sorry we are not in agreement here, x, y, z, transpired and rudeness was not my intent. I was promptly informed that I was VERY RUDE INDEED!! And I said, sorry, charlie, sayonara, since obvy I don't make the grade here. So, onward to Other Companions. (the new one calls me "bitch" as a term of endearment. it could be love! ) TODAY, in response to my journal entry, I GET ANOTHER LECTURE!!! Honest to "Bob", what's a person to think? I am utterly incredulous that this guy would actually think that the way into my heart would be to lecture me MORE! Because yes, friends, he wants to re-open what passed for lines of communication. Yes, the internets are a world of wonders. So, I explained my view, that temper is Not Good in my world, and apologized, in the neutral non-apology fashion of one who has worked in the service industry for 25 years. And said to myself THIS IS WHY YOU NEVER DATE ITALIAN MEN. I get this shit at home for free, why add to it? OY!! </rant> And bigsmoochysnorgles to my lovelylovely friends who are kind and understanding!! You know who you are!
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