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camille65 -> RE: I hate it when........ (7/28/2008 5:59:50 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd
Ok sweetie.. what gives.. how did it go?
The concerned are worried.
Gwyn
I don't know how it went!!!
He was to meet with his dad and brother at noon Sunday, at about 10am he sent me a text asking for the previous years utility and tax info.. now um hello?? Why why why wait until the very last moment for that info?
So I emailed it to him and he emailed back saying he would call me in the afternoon. His idea of afternoon is very very different from mine, in fact all of his time assumption is different lol. I received a short call at 7pm (afternoon huh?) saying 'well it didn't go badly but we now have to meet with my sister. But my girlfriend stole my car and I need a ride there'. Then I hear his girlfriend in the background returning, M said he would call me right back.
Now it is 13 hours later and no word from him.
So I DONT FREAKING KNOW. This is driving me insane, he won't meet with me and work out the details. I wanted to have the purchase agreement drawn up and worked out before his meeting because that is simply the way I do business but he is totally totally lacksadasical about stuff.
If I call I will feel like I'm bugging him but I have to have an answer today.
On the good side, I sold an enormous set of wrought iron furniture to my neighbor and she is very interested in my five oriental rugs. (hahaha I didn't know I had five, thought I had four! They've been rolled up in my workroom for years)
If she can't buy them she is going to sell them on EBay for me, with a cut of the profits which I am fine with. I don't have time or energy to get EBay going.
I'm going to do my best to stay busy and not fret myself sick today, my parents are due back into town this afternoon and I have to have answers for my father.. sigh. He does understand that M is using a living trust for the money and that he has to go through family but.. this is taking too long. Far too long. I do not have a good feeling about this especially because M had little to take to the meeting. No survey, no photos. No description of the house etc. I don't understand how people operate in that manner and it is horrifically stressful.
I told my father I was meeting with M and his brother at 1pm today (yes I lied, hoping that I could get information by then).
In the end nothing has changed. I still don't know if he is buying this house or not but I am proceeding as if the answer is yes. Today I am setting my goal of:
10 boxes of books whittled down to 4 (sob sob, bye-bye beloved books)
Boxing all my old pots/pans to give away to folks that need them.
Pricing out roll off dumpsters (oh the crap I have)
3 loads of laundry
1 load of dishes
Clean out fridge
Spend 2 hours wrapping little fragile things so I can finally get the spare bedroom empty.
I won't be able to get all that done because I'm hurting pretty badly but I have to try. I don't really give a shit if I can't move a limb by Tuesday, it is a sort of a masochistic thing inside me right now. I am angry and worried, so driving myself into the ground will be a distraction.
Whew. Yeah I am tense eh?
Huge hugs to you sweet Gwyn, jeez I worry about you and wish I could do something.
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