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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:15:42 AM

LilSubmissive1

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I hate it that when I came home from vacation the house is a mess after I made sure it was spotless when I left and of course I'm the one who is gonna clean it up. Ugh..I hate dishes piled up in the sink.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:27:53 AM

Gwynvyd

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I'd be beatin someone's ass... I dont care what side of the whip they are on.. clean the freakin house damn it. dont leave it for others.

If I left it clean It had damn well better be just as clean when my ass gets home.

I'm just sayin.....

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:33:55 AM

LilSubmissive1

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I agree. I hate to say it though, but I'm easy like that. I bitch an moan all day long but in the end, I'll clean it myself so I know it gets done. I'm not a neat freak by any means, but dammit, at least keep the place neat.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:34:31 AM

camille65

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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Camille...settle down with a cup of hot tea, a good book and a cat and enjoy a day to yourself. Put a full cat food bowl on the bed next to you and the fur-baby can have breakfast in bed. You have earned it, you have a contract the house, there is not much you can do to schedule repairs this weekend and sweating it isn't going to change that.

RELAX..just because it is labor day weekend doesn't mean you have to LABOR through it.

poenkitten (edited cause I can't type)

Ugh more 'sweating over stuff'. I just got a call from a realtor asking to do a showing tomorrow morning! I explained that as far as I knew there was an offer pending.. but I'm doing the showing anyway incase they meet my asking price.

And something keeps biting me. I have about 15 itchy ouchy welts on my legs and a butt cheek, can't find the bug!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:39:11 AM

Kalista07

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i hate when i am forced to once again learn a whole new level of humility. i think i'm pretty freaking humble as it is....But, nooooooooooooooooooooo.....

i hate that my paperwork for bankruptcy will not go through until next month. i hate that i do not have the money saved up to just go out and buy another car. i hate that each time He comes into the bedroom, He asks what's wrong and i try and tell Him nothing, and eventually He'll ask me if i'm thinking about money and car things, and then He comes over and hugs me. And then tells me that i need to stop worrying about money, that He'll help me out. i hate that i'm once again losing my independence because i'm going to have to use His car to do things like go to the gym.
Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:44:50 AM

LadyHibiscus

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Kali! You are NOT going to the gym this week, are you? You must rest your smashed self!!

HUGS on the money stuffs... got nothing but sympathy to offer there, believe me!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 10:52:14 AM

Kalista07

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Thank You soooo much Lady H. My plan was to go back beginning of the week. i have an idea He might think better of that though.
i'm trying to be patient with myself and my body.
Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:19:03 AM

MistressK1964

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Dont push it....you may end up doing more harm than good. Give yourself 1 week and see how you feel and if you can still move. Take advise from someone whos been there and learned the hard way. I ended up not being able to move for a month. BE PATIENT!

Know how it is with money issues. Something will happen soon for the better for you. Could be worse. Hang in there....Hugs.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:23:03 AM

Kalista07

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Thank You Mistress K. and You are absolutely right, it could be worse...... i could be living with someone who makes me pay for half of the bills versus what He thinks i can afford. i could have been severly injured and/or killed. i could have been at fault for this accident. My job might have been less than understanding about me needing to be off the last two days or so......
i am grateful that i am okay and the He is supportive of me, my life, my health and well being. On so many levels my life has truly never been so good.
Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:27:40 AM

MistressK1964

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And you didnt have friends who care and love you enough to be straight with you even if you dont know them from Adam.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:48:38 AM

BlackPhx

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Kalista, believe it or not what goes around comes around though people try not to believe it. The good you have done in your life is coming back to you now when you are in need. Yes, it may seem like there are some harsh lessons being learned at the same time, and perhaps one of them is to be gracious when aid is offered, but please remember to count your blessings.
Your Jeep may be totaled but YOU are alive and in relatively one piece.
You have filed Bankruptcy but there is someone wonderful there helping you instead of abandoning you or being a burden on you (been there in the exact same position with the burdensome Ex)
Insurance will take care of the car and medical bills and go after the other person for it
Your Job Understands
You have food on your plate, clothes to wear and a roof over your head
You have friends who care and even if they have nothing more to offer than comfort, that is more than many have these days.

Things will get better, but please take the time to heal..and don't rush it.

poenkitten

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:54:37 AM

MistressK1964

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Very well said.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 11:59:03 AM

Kalista07

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Poen You are seriously too much!!! You are so sweet and kind. The oddest thing is, that there's this part of me that believes what You are saying. Trust me there've been times in my past where i did not want to be the one who has to always do the 'right thing', but i had to. Mostly because i'm ruled by guilt. And if i actually did something to harm someone it would seriously kill me.
Kali
(who continues to be shocked and amazed at the wonderful, caring, and loving friends she has on here)

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 12:24:27 PM

Kalista07

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i seriously HATE it when i'm sitting here on the computer, in the bedroom, and i look up and there's this huge ass nasty looking hateful spider who's like the size of my head in the window......
Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 12:33:07 PM

BlackPhx

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I hate that no matter how much I need and want something I have to fight and resist before I can have it. No I am not talking about ice cream or something I want to buy, but about that part of me that will not let me submit on anything save a very temporary basis. I know that Master gets very tired of having to constantly take from me something I want so deep in my heart to give him, yet,ll it is always a battle of wills and while I can sometimes circumvent it that resistence is always there for the next time and the battle then becomes greater.

I know it stems from my childhood and my second marraige reenforced it, if I had not had the strength of will and body i had I probably would not have survived, but it is a survival trait that is now a block to the happiness of both my Master and I.

Sigh....anyone know pill to cure that one?

poenkitten

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 12:34:38 PM

BlackPhx

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LOL Kali... you are braver than I am..I learned to teleport thanks to a spider dropping on me while I was in bed...I would be in Alaska by now.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 12:43:20 PM

Kalista07

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OMG Poen!!! i'm saved from this magical glass window in between us...BASTARD spiders!!

And honestly, i can totally relate to what You are saying about not being able to submit something You so deeply desire to submit. Hopefully, Your Master is as wise as mine is and knows that there's a huge difference for people like us between willing to and being able to... The reality is fo rme, i'm going through some of that today. i know i should tell him why i "look so sad" but the oother reality of it is i don't want to . And not because i'm trying to keep something from Him, but because i just think He's got enough to deal with regarding me and my 8million kazillion issues to have to have me bring another one up for Him. i don't have any idea if i'm making any sense or not at all.
*hugs*
Kali

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 12:43:42 PM

MistressK1964

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For Me going with the flow and seeing what happens helps Me. In otherwords *Smile and be Happy*. Cant change the past, live in the now and see what the future brings. Dont deal with tomorrow.....its not here yet and things could change drastically. I am an optimist not a pessimist. I have learned to see the glass as 1/2 full and not 1/2 empty.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 1:02:39 PM

BlackPhx

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That part I have down...but it doesn't help the battle of wills that occurs everytime Master and I dance. I am a SAM, and a pretty good masochist at that, but it seems I don't have a submissive bone anywhere in my body. Every last one stands up and fights even when it is craving what is being done. I know it is exhausting for Master to have to fight for every advance, or pleasure.

Example 1. He wants to practise his Shibari ties...call slave, undress slave, start base, pull slave back into place, tie hand, catch hand, tie other hand, pull slave back into place..

Example 2. chain slave to cross and begin flogging. Go for the silver..have slave turn around and laugh, go for the gold..have arm and shoulder bitching about workout, have slave laugh again..go for the plaintum... finish have slave look around with look on face of what happened..You stopped.

It's at the point where he would like a submissive just to feed that need of his since I can't...though I did tell him from the beginning that there was no submissiveness in me...

sigh

poenkitten (very unhappy with herself right now)

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RE: I hate it when........ - 8/30/2008 1:17:41 PM

Fetishandthemuse

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...my peach cobbler is in the oven. It's 85 degrees out.
Fet's not coming home until 10pm.

I have to still clean, shower and get ready to go to an outdoor party, that I really don't want to go to (I'm the chauffeur.).

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