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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 9:56:31 AM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		well he is doing the lawyer bit.. I am getting my ass sued off by the jack ass roomie I used to have mother.

He is wanting to go over the papers.. and what I should do in court so I have a chance of not losing my ass.

I finaly did not mask my feeling about him yesterday when he called. I was not my chipper happy self.. I actualy showed how pissed I was to a very minor degree. He had no clue as to why I could be upset with him so I spelled it out.

now this shit.

*grumbles*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 9:57:29 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Gwyn, that was the last of his stuff, and I had been telling him to come get it for over a year.  I finally gave him a firm deadline and told him that he was either picking it up or I was considering it abandoned and I was getting rid of it.  He of course didn't believe me, but I stood firm.  That's when the shit hit the fan.

Unfortunately, it wasn't stuff I could just box up... it was a huge workbench that weighed several hundred pounds and hung off the end of his long-bed pickup when he finally got it loaded.  And some crated car parts (think front-end).  And he's never even lived here, I let him store it here because I was being nice (nice = idiot).

Thankfully, my garage is not attached to my apartment, so the kids didn't even know he was here.  I asked my older one if they heard anything, and she said no.

Custody issues are locked up... I have sole legal and sole physical custody, and he has visitation. 

The most he can do right now is come by and walk the kids to the park... he doesn't have a car seat, insurance, or valid registration on his truck, so he knows I won't let him drive the kids (the court order specifically addresses this). 

And he's about to be homeless, as he hasn't paid his rent in a couple of months, so they won't be going over to his house.

He's talked about leaving the area... I just wish he would.


Cali


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 10:19:34 AM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		*Hugs* Sorry to hear that he's giving you a bad time, Cali. The guy is definitely a few cans shy of a 6 pack. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 10:22:44 AM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		What ever you do.. stop being so damn nice honey. They see it as weakness.. and that they can still have control over you.

It is fucked up.. but that is how thier thought process goes.

Do not offer meals, do not offer a place to stay.. dont offer anything. He will read much more into it.

Yes he is the father of the ums.. but that does not intitle him to wreck your, and thier lives. He was a date that went well.. and then turned sour over time. They need you to stand up to him and not allow him to be an ass to thier ma-ma.

Positive male rolemodels are much better then a father who has issues.

*hugs you again as she has been there*



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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 10:31:28 AM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		In the past, I have let my guard down when he returned to being nice.  He hasn't been "nice" in so long now, that I don't think I would believe it if he did.  I'm actually surprised he isn't being nicer to me right now, seeing as how he is about to be evicted.  He generally is more calculating than that.

I had a long talk with a friend last night, after it was over, and all I can do is keep my resolve firm.  Around the time I left him (a bit over two years ago), I would let him stay over occasionally and spend more time with the kids.  I haven't done that since I discovered he went thru my cell phone while I was in the bathroom, writing down names and numbers of people in it. When I found out, I asked him what on earth he was hoping to accomplish?  What was he expecting to find? And what would it matter anyway?  I had left him, what did it matter who I was talking to?  He has never "gotten" that.  Anyway, he hasn't stayed over in a long time, and never will again.

It's also been quite a while since I offered to let him have a meal here with the kids.

What's funny is that I used to think that if he found someone else, he would leave me alone.  He had a girlfriend for just less than a year, and the entire time he was with her, he was still trying to get me to come back. I don't have any illusions that it is ME that he wants... he wants the more stable life that I have (financially and all), and he wants whatever/whoever he doesn't have.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 10:37:26 AM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		Cali, that's awful..... Give me the JAMF's address and i'll take care of Him..... He doesn't deserve Your kindness or Your generosity.... BASTARD!!!

Gwy, i think that currently these 'men'  should be strung up by their balls, beaten, frozen, let only the beginnings of thawing to begin, and beat the hell out of them until they fall apart....literally.....

Oh yeah, i hate it when i wake up and the pain is so bad i consider pretending i'm asleep all day so that i don't have to move...

Kali
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 11:03:36 AM   
lronitulstahp


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Status: offline 		i hate that i don't have a pilot's license and plane....and a bat....

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 11:19:21 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		*hugs to all*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 1:40:26 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Cali,

My ex was and can be the same way.  I tried being so kind, thinking it would be contagious, to no avail.  Now, I try to just be civil, and limit our discussions to the kids, and keep those very short.  My ex was a mess, too.  Ended up losing place after place, living like a gypsy.  He's much better now, and I'm glad, for him and the kids when they are with him.  I hope and pray, that in time, things will be so much better for you.

Red

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 1:50:14 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I hate that I've gotten way behind on bills..

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 1:54:17 PM   
Raechard


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Status: offline 		Changes name to Bill and steps into the Bill queue forming outside MsGreedyTop's door

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 1:54:18 PM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		hugs GT, i'm about to be in the same boat girl, until i can get some commissions coming in, i'm not pulling in a lot of money. 

i hate that i can't get warm today.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 1:57:39 PM   
GreedyTop


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*hugs the Lizard chick*  it'll get better, sweetie..

eta:  I HATE THAT LINCOLN-MERCURY IS USING SPACE ODDITY ON A NEW AD CAMPAIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  and it's being sung by a CHICK!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 2:03:43 PM   
Daddysredhead


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Status: offline 		*hugs GT*  I know what you mean.  I just finally got myself caught up and there's only some change left in my account till Friday.  I'm just glad that they're paid for now, there's food in the fridge, there's gas in my car, and the plates are still spinning in the air, without falling on my head.

*hugs christine and pulls her close, grabs a blankie, so we can keep each other warm*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 3:53:50 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Thanks Red, everybody, I appreciate it.


Cali


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 8:19:55 PM   
auroraborealis


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I hate it that I was concerned the Daddy-o would pop out of bush, or knock on my door while my new Beau was with me. He even jokingly asked if there was any one with a shot gun he should be concerned about... *nervous chuckle*

But thankfuly booger man stayed where ever the hell he is.. and left me, and us be.

Oh.. and while I am on the "hatin" thread.. I hate it that he had shit to do in the morning and couldnt stay. *pouts a bit* Looks like it is me, and Jean Claude the teddy bear again tonight.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 8:43:06 PM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		~perks~   that's what i need...a teddybear!  to hell with men!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 8:53:58 PM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		Well dang it.. if you lived closer I would loan out JC to ya on 1/2 the nights..

He is an life sized teddy bear.. warm, fluffy... doesnt talk back... doesnt ask for anything.

But there is nothing like a real life teddy bear to snuggle with... *sighs*

Give me about 20 more years of nights like tonight and I might catch up on all the snuggles I have been lacking in.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 9:04:17 PM   
CalifChick


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmm...



Cali
(who wants to know why she is out of the loop on everyone's lust life)


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/6/2008 9:06:13 PM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		hugs gwyn, you deserve snuggles and all that good stuff girl.

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He's the "boom" overwhelming...

He is my Master, my lover, my best friend my everything.

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