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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 11:07:40 AM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		As for the u-haul.. ask them how big you will need. They are pros at that stuff. It goes by how many rooms you are cramming into it.

I am the Goddess of portible hole cramming.

a 3 bedroom 2 bath with double garage villa was stuffed into a 17" and small trailer when I ordered at 24' orig. Rat bastards didnt have any available even with a reservation.

It all depends on how many boxes, and furniture you are taking with you... and how good the movers are at stacking shit up.

You could *maybe* fit a sheet of paper in the truck.. but that was it.

Now I have a bedroom set, some electronics, and my personal stuff.. and thats it. it only takes 1 trip in a 14" to move all I own, and I do not have to stack it up to the gills.

When you go to take the truck.. do a walk around for any dents and dings.. when you return it refill the gas back to what it was. the charges suck. My girl returned the truck with out doing that.. didnt tell me and I had huge charges on my CC. Also make sure it is clean when you return it.

I am so happy for you and your new start hun!



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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 11:10:31 AM   
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quote:

I am the Goddess of portible hole cramming

good to see you haven't TOTALLY changed...*snicker*


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 11:19:45 AM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		*snickers* I was wondering who would be the first to rise to make a comment. LOL Glad to see I am not disapointed.

Mmm girls are just nummy.. I gots to admit.

I think it was damn hilarious when my new Beau was riffling through my toy chest and came across the drawer of insertables.. and ran into my BBC. The horrified look on his face of "Dear Gods what is that thing" He asked what the hell do I club with it... I think that was his phrase. LOL and then seeing how he sized up to each one.. *chuckles* that was too funny. I am so glad he has a sense of humor... even when it comes to my strap ons and my D side.



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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 11:28:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		I hate how I was watching a wedding video and that part where the groom takes the garter off with his teeth I pictured myself and someone I miss greatly but know I will never see or hear from again. Not to mention that we can't even have a conversation without screaming at each other and it still hurts and it still stings and I feel stupid for missing/ wanting him.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 12:17:37 PM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		awww hun.... *huggles*


it eases over time.. and with some hard work. It realy does.




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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 12:22:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		I rented a POD. Yay, no frantic packing because I am the only moving crew lol. I had to choose between a really small and really large one.. so went with the large one. I've gotten rid of most of my furniture and will have about 35 liquor size boxes, 6 oak book cases, a small wrought iron set, a large lazyboy, small china cabinet, pc desk/chair, 2 wicker chairs and electronics. Oh and my clothes heh, can't forget those. Apparently city dwellers wear clothing!
A few other items.. and thats it.

A friend is driving with me and I just didn't want to deal with a UHaul because I'm probably getting rid of my Mountaineer and getting a smaller vehicle which means no towing. I will miss the power of the truck but not the awful MPG!

Its really funny, I was writing in my journal and for the first time typed 'moving to Texas'. Somehow Austin.. wasn't Texas in my head until that very moment.

The sad thing is that I've begun making friends here and now I'm leaving dang it! Ah well, its going to be a grand adventure and after this past week I won't miss this house quite so much. I won't miss the maintenence that is such a struggle.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 12:31:39 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 12:32:03 PM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		I HATE it when the down stairs goobers cook something vile and nasty smelling as Liver and onions.. and my whole apt. smells like it and it makes me wanna hurl.

I have got tons of scented candles and incense going.. and damn it still smells bad.

Good gods why cant they cook that shit in the main kitchen where I wouldnt be able to smell it.. no they have to use the deep frier and his kitchen he has built into his den/bar.

I think I am gonna go down and barf on them. That would fix thier little red wagon. 

*grumbles some more and lights another glad scented oil candle*



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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 12:33:58 PM   
christine1


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I hate annoying people that return. and whine.


yup, me too. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:05:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: auroraborealis

awww hun.... *huggles*


it eases over time.. and with some hard work. It realy does.





I know I'd just like to rush the process. Everything was left so unresolved for me and the situation was huge and complicated and to make matters worse the problems weren't just with the two of us and we are both young and stupid and didn't think about anything before we did it (although he will say otherwise). Somedays I think closure pfft I don't need no stinkin closure and other days I think well if I could just get the answer to this or this knowing that I don't have any of his contact information I tossed it all away and he probably wouldn't answer even if I did ask. ughh sorry.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:09:16 PM   
christine1


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Status: offline 		imp...i think closure is a big thing for us wimmens.  i didn't get much either and that's going to be a struggle for me as i get over the last "person" i was with.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:24:25 PM   
auroraborealis


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Status: offline 		Ladies.. I was the same.. I had Zip for closure.. and it is a major part of the healing process.

I had to create my own closure. No listening to "our songs" No watching sad assed movies.. no bridal gown looking.. none of that. no contacting him to make sure he was alive...

I detached myself.. and looked back on not only the good, but also the bad, and the difficult. Time and longing had made me glamorize our time we shared.. I had forgotten the lonelyness in between seeing him and not seeing him hardly at all... I had forgotten what a cunt his was is.... I had forgotten some of the things we said that couldnt be taken back.. and how he allowed himself to be poisoned against me. I had forgotten the guilt of it all.

I think quite possibly he was my soul mate. For what ever reason it did not work. I can do nothing more then smile up at the universe and pray they have something much better in store for me.. because it wasnt all sunshine and roses. ( What is) but we all deserve happiness.

*hugs you both*

Gwyn

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:24:46 PM   
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Status: offline 		He used to say when we were still on talking terms why do you want closure I don't want closure that means it's over for good. I thought at that time, but didn't voice, but we couldn't talk for 6 months we didn't talk for six months, we passed each other at work and school and acted like we didn't even know each other how is that better? And now we aren't talking at all and I'm fully convinced that we won't see or speak to each other again we are 1200 miles away and I hurt more than I ever have in my entire life and I just don't see time erasing all wounds or making this better. Time won't change the things you said and did and it won't change the things I said. Time won't fix the precious gift that we lost or that we were so focused on ourselves that we couldn't see the bigger picture or that there was something more important. And now I think he keeps answers from me because he know it hurts. I'll never show it hell I packed my shit (said screw the Ph.D. it's not the kind of work I want to do anyways) took my Masters and moved 5 states away, left no return address, no phone number and nothing behind. Now it's just about picking up all the pieces and putting them back together.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:32:55 PM   
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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:38:37 PM   
auroraborealis


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it takes lots of work hun.. but it will get better eventualy.

If you havent listened to my thing on forgiveness go back and find it. I think it might help in this honey.

It doesnt mean you forget, or the other person is off the hook for thier actions.. it means you alow yourself to move on and heal.

Good luck on that honey.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:42:08 PM   
impishlilhellcat


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Status: offline 		I didn't listen to yours, but I started going to church and my pastor a pretty funny guy said the same thing. He said if I didn't forgive it would only be hurting me and not him and you know I don't hate him any more I really don't I don't blame him any more we both were to blame I just want to..... forget or the pain to fade just a little bit more I don't want to wonder anymore why the biggest and most important promises are the ones that never mattered or why he didn't follow through or any of that.

But thanks girls I appreciate it.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 2:57:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		The Monday draws near I hate that, alas draw it does nearer it get's doom doom. The job, the boss pervasive they are annoying they be, like everywhere I look they are. I'm sick of my name that is how much I hate them saying it. On the plus side I get paid and it's only for another 38 years or so give or take an early death through stress.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 3:34:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Do it again only this time invite him into your mind and get revenge  as you go for that orgasm. E.G. Picture him tied to a chair, gagged and made to watch as you and others pleasure you into mindlessness...

poenkitten

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 3:38:20 PM   
BlackPhx


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Status: offline 		Kali you aint gonna get rich..but you should be made Whole..car, health, medical bills covered...

that ain't being mean..

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RE: I hate it when........ - 9/7/2008 4:11:57 PM   
Kalista07


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Status: offline 		i hate when i realize i'm feeling down...i hate when i have that overwhelming feeling to throw my stuff into my car, leave Him a note, and go far far FAR away....And then i realize i have no car to put my stuff in.....So, it would be more like me packing some shit and hobbeling down the road....Seriously, loses the purpse...
Kali


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