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ORIGINAL: BlackPhx

Honey when you are hanging nekkid in front of him, I doubt your weight is whats on his mind, unless you are hanging from a meat scale.

poenkitten ( not so svelt herself)

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

When I was younger my kid sister used to get picked on, I was always right there ready to give some bully a slap for her, she nicknamed me "The Avenger."  You remind me of her Not that you are not perfectly capable of taking care of yourself, I just lubs ya that's all. Sucks to be hurting and feel like no one is in your corner, I know that one all too well.  It has been a long sucky week or two. Surely there is rainbow right around our corner soon sunshine!

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

love ya annye darling i so do

again darling and fyi you can always be my big sister, God knows i need one to smack me right about the time i think in my head , i love him. kisses annye thank You

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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

Kali,

You and I have talked and you know what a special place you have in my heart.  I'm only operating at about 4% right now, but I wanted to let you know that you are a treasure and if he loves you, it's for all of you.  You are not just some imperfection that needs correction.  I understand that all too well myself, and you and I have talked about this.  I am by no means a little gal.  You've seen pictures of me and DaddyBoo.  He's not a lightweight either.  During my lifetime, I've been skinny, medium, and fat.  You know what?  It doesn't really mean much at the end of the day.  When people love us, it's not for what we are, or look like, or can offer them... at least it shouldn't be about that.  People love us for how we make them feel... appreciated, adored, cherished.  Let yourself believe what my Beloved told me once, "I love you for your heart, not the packaging it come in.  And no one talks down about My girl - not even My girl... do it, and you will understand how serious I am." 

Well, I didn't listen to that last part once, and He couldn't have punished me worse than what He said to me - "How dare you disrespect yourself and diminish yourself right in front of me?  If I feel that you have such incredible worth, and I know what a beautiful and bright woman you are, how dare you talk about yourself like you are no more than a piece of garbage?  You know what, for once in my life... I'm actually mad at you."  He asked me how I would feel if someone talked about my kids the way I talked about myself, and I said that I'd be pissed and there would be hell to pay.  He looked at me and said, "Then how do you think I feel right now, when the one I love and protect needs protecting from the one I love?"  Think about that, sweetie, and maybe it will make sense to you on some level.

Take care, sweet lady.  You are cherished by so many.  See yourself the way we see you.

Love,
DRH