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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 8:22:42 AM   
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Try going to bed at 2:45 AM instead.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 8:46:04 AM   
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I hate it that my friends have things to hate..

I hate it that I got fired on Friday because they didnt like the 4 Dr's notes I brought in..

I hate it that I am so nervous about this damn court date on my birthday. JAMF's

I hate the whole last week. At least my finals are out of the way.

I hate that I need to get a good paying job.. but being so pregnant that my tummy pops into the room 2 mins before I do, no one in their right mind would hire me at this point.

I hate it that my honey is totaly stressed out because of this all.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 8:51:00 AM   
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How long have you had the job. Can you colect unemployment?

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 8:59:18 AM   
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Gwyn, California gives pregnant women state disability for pregnancy.  At least they did when I lived there.  I don't suppose there are any benefits like that where you live?  Another option to look into is a job you could do from home.  There are proofreading things that pay by the output.  I'm actually considering getting into something like that to supplement my current job.

There may also be a legal recourse since they essentially fired you for being ill.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 9:24:44 AM   
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I hate it that I got fired on Friday because they didnt like the 4 Dr's notes I brought in.. 

Gwyn


What the HELL does that mean??? They fired you for being sick/or pregnanat??????? I agree w/Lin, go to a lawyer who does pro bono work & see what can be done. That makes NO SENSE WHATSOEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  F**king companies think they can just push people around for no damn reason other than to amuse themselves!!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 11:39:21 AM   
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I hate it that Gwyn got fired!

I hate that I spent the morning at the DVM. I hate that I had to get a duplicate license thats only good for 5 months. I couldnt get a renewal cause I flunked the eye exam! oh shit, I'm getting old! So now I have to get glasses and take it again later. I hate that I couldnt get my license plate sticker til after I left and got an emissions test and then had to drive back to the DVM and wait again!

I do love that I am full compliance. Although I failed to apear for a summons for a debt as they wanted me to pay to appear. So I am in default.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 12:23:24 PM   
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I hate that Gwyn got fired!!  I got fired for being sick once, too, if the company is too small to be covered under FMLA, OH WELL!  Nothing to be done. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 1:37:16 PM   
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I got fired once for being the 5th girl of 5 who were scheduled that night to call in sick.  I really was sick & when I got well enough to go to the place to pick up my paycheck, the boss apologized & told me he had just been upset at the circumstances & had taken it out on me & begged me to forgive him & come back to work.  I smiled & said, "Not in this lifetime, Bub!!!!!"

This was back in the olden days when you could get fired for anything, didn't even have to give a reason.  Oh, wait.  That's called "at-will" now. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 2:50:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd

I hate it that my friends have things to hate..

I hate it that I got fired on Friday because they didnt like the 4 Dr's notes I brought in..

I hate it that I am so nervous about this damn court date on my birthday. JAMF's

I hate the whole last week. At least my finals are out of the way.

I hate that I need to get a good paying job.. but being so pregnant that my tummy pops into the room 2 mins before I do, no one in their right mind would hire me at this point.

I hate it that my honey is totaly stressed out because of this all.

Gwyn


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 4:18:22 PM   
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*bunches of hugs to Gwyn*

Here's something to start your search for legal advice.  Ask if they have a free consult, make sure you have all your facts and dates written down, and bring copies of anything you feel may help them understand what you have been dealing with at your job.  Good luck, sweetie. 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 4:21:49 PM   
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i hate it when He and i are just starting to heat things up..................mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....And he orders me to close my eyes......and i peak out of them a teensy itsy bitsy bit and He comes back and puts a ball gag in my mouth.................... i hate it most of all that i realized there was something in the ball that i was allergic too. Damn...Wrong wrong WRONG kind of pain....

WTF??!!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:04:38 PM   
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*hugs Kali*   Sorry, doll baby.  You poor thing.

One of our subs didn't mention a latex allergy and it was only after she had a butt plug wrapped in a condom shoved in her ass, screaming like a banshee, that she told us. 

Ass on fire much? 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:07:10 PM   
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Oh, by the way.......

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:11:23 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

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I hate it that I got fired on Friday because they didnt like the 4 Dr's notes I brought in.. 

Gwyn

Actually the only time a job can't hire or fire you at will is due to discrimination. Race/gender/orientation, etc. Other than that they have the legal right to do whatever the f*ck they want or feel they need to do. The only repercussions of firing someone like that is *sometimes* the state will make them pay unemployment which is only like 1/3 of original pay for a maximum of 3 months. And to get unemployment you have to provide proof of looking for another job. Not easy when you are hugely pregnant.


What the HELL does that mean??? They fired you for being sick/or pregnanat??????? I agree w/Lin, go to a lawyer who does pro bono work & see what can be done. That makes NO SENSE WHATSOEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  F**king companies think they can just push people around for no damn reason other than to amuse themselves!!!


Actually, they can fire or hire someone whenever they want unless  it can be proven it was due to race/sex/orientation, etc. IE; discrimination.


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:14:41 PM   
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*hugs Kali*   Sorry, doll baby.  You poor thing.

One of our subs didn't mention a latex allergy and it was only after she had a butt plug wrapped in a condom shoved in her ass, screaming like a banshee, that she told us. 

Ass on fire much? 


OUCH! not a smart move on her part!

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:22:26 PM   
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LOL, Lin...  you have something to tell me, dear?  *giggles*

Mystic, you aren't even kidding...  Our play time ended up sitting her butt in cold water, getting her Benadryl, and making sure her breathing, etc. was ok till the reaction went away.  Not my type of "edge" play, that's for sure.  *geez*

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:36:58 PM   
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I have an allergy to latex as well..touch it to mucous membranes and it swells SHUT but it doesn't affect my breathing, unless it hits the throat, mouth or nasal cavity. Yep even those..vinyl was not what BP had in his pocket the first time we planned to ..canoodle... fast race to the all night drugstore.

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:39:10 PM   
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LOL, Lin...  you have something to tell me, dear?  *giggles*

Mystic, you aren't even kidding...  Our play time ended up sitting her butt in cold water, getting her Benadryl, and making sure her breathing, etc. was ok till the reaction went away.  Not my type of "edge" play, that's for sure.  *geez*


Nope, not me, Red.  I don't do allergies.  Well, there was that one time with the Demerol & the hives, but that's a different thing altogether.  I was just kinda wondering how blonde this sub was to not mention a latex allergy before playing.  Hmmmmmm??? 

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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:39:39 PM   
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I hate finding out I might have a mild latex allergy because I had to wear latex gloves for nine hours straight and they made my hands itchy and swollen.

I think I should give this information to Sir...thanks for reminding me!


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RE: I hate it when........ - 11/25/2008 5:42:38 PM   
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Actually, they can fire or hire someone whenever they want unless  it can be proven it was due to race/sex/orientation, etc. IE; discrimination.


At will employment is fairly standard in most states, however, the exceptions are varied.  States have to follow the ADA (Americans with Disabilities Act).  I'm not sure how FL defines it, but, in VA, pregnancy is considered a medical condition that is protected under the ADA in most cases, depending on the situation. 

For example, you cannot be fired just for being pregnant while you are working somewhere.  However, if the employer makes reasonable efforts to ensure that your medical condition and needs are met, most times they meet the criteria.  If your attendance has faltered due to your medical condition, then the employer has cause to give you a warning or possibly dismiss you for failure to perform your duties since you aren't there.  What Linea says about short term disability is true in some states, you may want to check Dept. of Social or Family Services and see of you qualify for such benefits.  Some companies have this insurance through Aflac or other providers, but it is something you pay for.  (short-term disability insurance)

Check your facts, put them on paper, make a few calls and see what happens.  Never hurts to check, but make sure you have your dates, etc. straight.  Wrongful termination can be very difficult to prove, but it's worth a try.  Also, just try to get a free initial consult with an attorney.  Most attorneys do their pro bono work through their local or regional Bar, and will not tell clients such a thing.  Many times in my 12 years as a paralegal, we've had folks call and ask if we'll take a case pro bono, and they get shut down with "We don't do Law For Free."  (These kinds of cases are meted out by places like Legal Aid to specific attorneys.)  No lawyer in his or her right mind (typically) will sign on to a case at the beginning, knowing they won't get a cent and at an average of 50+ hours or more doing depositions and trial prep at a rate of $300.00/hour, they aren't likely to give out $15,000.00 of free work, if a simple negotiation via phone won't work.

Sorry, but it's the way things usually work.

typo

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