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It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:21:23 PM   
YoungsubAZ


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Status: offline 		Everytime I see biker women. The leather, the overall toughness in their appearance, I usually always assume they are into the lifestyle. Or maybe that's just because I have a dirty mind. Does anyone know any dommes who are also bikers?  Any thoughts in general? Thanks.
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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:22:53 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		Oh hell, every 'nilla person seems to think I'm a biker because I wear leather and boots...
I don't have one though...

I'm a Domme and not a biker.

Does that help?

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:25:36 PM   
YoungsubAZ


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Status: offline 		Wow, such anger and animosity. No, that's not what I was saying at all. I didn't say when I see a domme I think they are  a biker.

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:30:26 PM   
faerytattoodgirl


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Status: offline 		i have tattoo's i must be a biker!

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:31:49 PM   
YoungsubAZ


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Status: offline 		Hilarious.

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 7:41:20 PM   
Mistress4mypet


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Status: offline 		youngsub, I think you got it right when you said "its probably incorrect to assume this!!
First of all, I am definatly NOT a biker and I can assure you I dont have any 'overall' toughness. I think this idea of yours is a fantasy in your head!
That would be like Me saying that because all the men I have seen riding Harleys must be Masters of Dominance since they all are wearing leather and look tough, LOL, half of them probably are locked sissys.
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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 8:09:29 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I wear boots and I have 2 tatoos and I ride motorcycles too.


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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 8:10:38 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		Honestly, from what i know of "biker" women, you see a lot more submissive tendencies than Dominant... Particularly when you get into the 1%'s (Hells Angels, etc). They don't take no shit from their ol' ladies. Female sportsbike riders are all over the map, but if i had to generalize, i'd pick the slightly-more-adventurous-than-average-but-still-basically-vanilla category. But, damn, they can look good in those one-piece leather suits...

There's only one "regular" that i know of on the Mistress forum who rides, but i could very easily have missed some...

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 10:09:33 PM   
MistresssAria


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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/14/2008 10:13:41 PM   
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If I could afford a motorcycle, I'd ride it...............


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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 5:33:54 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Its not good to assume anything from someone's appearance -- in any context.

I ride, a lot -- wear leather, boots.. etc.. but I do ride on the back.  My riding clothing however is very different from my SM leather... they have to be different...

In any situation, assuming someone is a top or bottom by what they wear is not really a good idea.  You would certainly make mistakes with me at times.

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 7:06:35 AM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungsubAZ

Everytime I see biker women. The leather, the overall toughness in their appearance, I usually always assume they are into the lifestyle. Or maybe that's just because I have a dirty mind. Does anyone know any dommes who are also bikers?  Any thoughts in general? Thanks.

I hang out with people who have bikes and I wear leather.  That must mean I'm a biker too.

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 8:29:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungsubAZ

Everytime I see biker women. The leather, the overall toughness in their appearance, I usually always assume they are into the lifestyle. Or maybe that's just because I have a dirty mind. Does anyone know any dommes who are also bikers?  Any thoughts in general? Thanks.


I laughed when I read your post...not because it was funny but because it brought back fond memories.  I was a Domme biker in my hey days... In fact, the group that I belonged to were comprised of several members from the community I was involved with.

I can understand how you would think that.  I think maybe "assuming" may not be the word but rather "association".  You see the leather and because of possible positive experiences you've had with a leather clad Domme you associate the leather with your experience.

I do however agree with  petdave in regards to how some hardcore biker men treat the women in the group.  I witnessed it when we would go to biker events.  Not so in the group I was in and the difference was evident.  Some of my subbies were required to learn to ride if I saw they truly had an interest, rather than ride on the back of my bike. 

There was something so gosh darn wonderful to have them ride behind me on their bikes and assume the role of my personal caretakers of me and my bike when we came to a stopping place.  It really broke the norm when we were at biker events but there was acceptance.  I loved California for the way folks just accept things as they are (for the most part). 

So... 7 tattoos later, my daughter has convinced me that I need to get a bike and ride with her, I have my eyes set on the Suzuki Katana 600.  A lightweight beauty!

My words to you are to associate the ladies in leather, on a bike rather than assume they are Dommes, with your precious memories of those that took you "there".

Ms. Faye

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 9:03:35 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		I love leather, I own boots, I have 1 tattoo and I ride a motorcycle. Am I considered a biker chick? I don't think so, most of the biker chicks I have met sit on the back of the bike and hold onto the men for dear life. Its very rare to find a biker chick with her own bike, but I am sure you could find some if you look.

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 9:12:56 AM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		If Mistress showed up at my house in full leather and on a bike, I'd be more than happy to ride bitch!

A leather biker domme and Her subby bitch in full rubber riding bitch?  Hmmm, I think it sounds pretty good to me!

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 9:29:56 AM   
petdave


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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

ride a ponygirl (like me) ...save the environment...


Ohhh, Equestriennes and Dominance are a WHOLE 'nother post...


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ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1
So... 7 tattoos later, my daughter has convinced me that I need to get a bike and ride with her, I have my eyes set on the Suzuki Katana 600.  A lightweight beauty!


Have you taken a look at the Suzuki SV650 as well? They're even a bit lighter, and IMO, have a more enjoyable powerband. Just a suggestion

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 10:08:24 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		If you see a woman on a bike in Leathers YES she is in the biker lifestyle , If she  has a seal  , ball , lion  and carries a tent  she maybe in the circus lifestyle ..
Assumptions  for the most part wrong ..

Lets see there are the weekend bikers,the ones who just buy the clothes have a harley sticker on a truck and call themselves bikers , there are the R.U B s  ,there are the bikers who  dig the  bikes ,dig the runs , can work on their bikes ,and hold down a job a family etc .Then there are the 1 % 'r bikers the outlaw bikers ,i could go on but what kinda biker gee take your  pick from the short list ..

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 11:54:29 AM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		I honestly believe all bikers are in the lifestyle... some just don't know it yet! Come on... leather, chains, property of tats... lol And yes, I'm a female dominant and a biker.

Jewel

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 2:47:43 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		jewel> with that line of thinking every rocker and metal head is also "into" bdsm too and lets not forget all the goths and vampires .
Lets face it assumptions  are just that and not always correct  nor can be used to blanket label people .

jack > there are MANY groups in the phx metro area ,APEX arizona power exchange is prob the biggest , there are gatherings , fetish balls , we hold the south west leather con every year , there are munches  on the east side -central phx -west side , one weekly in tempe  . i would suggest getting out among the local community ,learn what you can where you can and have fun and enjoy .A lil home work goes along way in meeting this  goal .

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RE: It's probably incorrect to assume this but... - 3/15/2008 3:16:46 PM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

I honestly believe all bikers are in the lifestyle... some just don't know it yet! Come on... leather, chains, property of tats... lol And yes, I'm a female dominant and a biker.

Jewel

I've found that to be anything but the case.  I had a less hard time with CHURCH groups than I did with motorcyclists during my title year as Ms World Leather, and that was asking them to support a vanilla, worthy cause (organ donation.)  The biker lot didn't want to be associated with kinky people.  The god-fearing types were afraid to be struck down if they turned down a worthwhile cause, I guess?!?!?!  LOL

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