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sirguym -> RE: Do Male Dominants ask Female Subs/Slaves for 'Tributes', 'Donations', or 'Gifts'...? (3/20/2008 11:02:28 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterDane
I have no problem with the exchange of money for sex no matter who does it.
I my world however a man cannot own what he cannot pay for!
(Hopelessly outdated view of the world I know.)
That seems spot on to me.
Conversely if a woman wants a service I can provide, but I am not inclined to give free, then I've every right to ask a price for her to pay or not; whether it is for sex, a spanking, training her as a pony, taking her to the ballet (I hate ballet), fixing her computer, doing her accounts or building her a garage.
Exactly as if were or man, or TV, or TS or whatever, whether (s)he is a submissive, a slave, a Dom(me) or vanilla ....
If she is 'my' sub or slave, then I will pay for whatever I choose to give her. (Though that may depend the terms of our contract, written or otherwise.)
If she wants something from me that I don't want to, or can't afford, to give her for free, and she has her own income, etc. then I'd expect her to pay for it, just like anybody else.
I can imagine circumstances where that could involve a regular fee, tribute, or whatever, though due to market forces, as many imply, that is unlikely for sexual services. That is really the only reason men don't often charge women often. And why a Domme can - because there's a market for her.
Others can judge what would be immoral or not, by their own morality. But your morality will not be the same as my morality.
You can assert your morality is better than my morality and I'll laugh, cynically, as I find the more certain a body is that their code is 'the only twue way' the more likely they are to be a simple-minded, deluded bigot, who exploits, uses and abuses other people and then excuses themselves by reference to 'holy writ'.
There is no absolute code; I most certainly don't respect any religion's legal code, dogma or doctrine.
If you can point out a contradiction between my morality and the secular law, between what I do and what I say is my morality, or allege I am endangering a person's health, wealth or public reputation, I'll listen. Otherwise, frankly, it is none of your damn business!
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