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Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 11:10:21 AM   
xbutterflyx


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Status: offline 		I am interested in chasity.. Has anyone had experiecne with this and how did you practice chasity? What if any devices were used or did you vow chasity?


Thank you and smile bunches,

xbx





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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 11:22:30 AM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		Chastity can be performed either on an honor system (as I perform it) or with some style of chastity belt.  It often includes not being allowed to masturbate, simply to be able to wash the area.  In some cases the sub must beg to be allowed to masturbate, depending on the Master.

There are many styles of belts available, or for simple play you could consider something like a special pair of panties your belt.  (There are a lot of us that play on a tight budget, so this would be an inexpensive way of doing it.)  Talk with your Dom to see how they want to do it.


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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 11:29:43 AM   
slvebtchdeCarlos


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Status: offline 		my Master made chastity a general rule almost from the start.  i'm not to play alone or even touch myself sexually unless He is with me or gives me permission.  my orgasms are for His pleasure, so there is no point in an orgasm if He isn't here.  It was difficult to wrap my head around this at first, but now i really don't enjoy masturbating (as much ) if it doesn't involve Him in some way.  Until i have labia rings that can be locked by Him, i am on the honor system. 

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 11:45:42 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Yoou want to see instant chasity. Tell a woman that she is stupid.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 12:45:18 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Or as my Uncle used to say.

You want to know what chastity is all about ..... Get Married.

Which I found odd when I got married because I can keep th ewomen off me.

Life is good.

Steel

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 1:57:08 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: xbutterflyx

I am interested in chasity.. Has anyone had experiecne with this and how did you practice chasity? What if any devices were used or did you vow chasity?


Thank you and smile bunches,

xbx








We've done short term chastity by him locking my labia rings shut.

C~


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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 2:22:19 PM   
SteelofUtah


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Status: offline 		Wow that was an unexpected visual.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 2:25:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		All I had was a visual of m'Lord rolling over in the morning and fumbling with the lock.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 4:15:03 PM   
xbutterflyx


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Status: offline 		Thanks everyone for your replies. I hope to have my labia rings soon..smiles.



Smile bunches...

xbutterflyx xx

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 5:28:56 PM   
FullofShadows


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Status: offline 		Honor System and Vow..both here

Shadows

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 6:45:31 PM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		This is the most effective one I have found. Especially with hygiene issues.

http://www.tollyboy.com/new/picture.php?photo=../images/gallery/0016.jpg

Or you can use locking plastic pants over diapers at home. Adds a bit of extra humilation and control to the mix.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 6:50:37 PM   
Urza


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Status: offline 		Labia rings?

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 8:11:38 PM   
candisa


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Status: offline 		might not wanna wear that near a metal-detector,
it could be quite the conversation starter.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 8:22:24 PM   
manwholuvs


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Status: offline 		LOL now that could make for an interesting situation sitting at dinner somewhere.  Just imagine the waiter or bus boy's reaction when they come to the table and hear that going off

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 9:46:18 PM   
jenf


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Status: offline 		i have gone through metal detectors at the entrance to court...with 4 labia rings and two padlocks,,,it never once alarmed...i chatted to the guard...he says they are set to only alarm at a certain level...my tiny rings and locks were not enough to set it off...But that is a moot point to the OPs question. Chastity is achieved by keeping your legs closed. Period. To "need" something more implies you have no self control, are you a nymphomaniac who needs to be controlled?


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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 9:48:12 PM   
Luciferica


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Status: offline 		death threats work well in my household..
(yes I'm kidding..somewhat...they are empty threats)


< Message edited by Luciferica -- 3/18/2008 9:51:18 PM >

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/18/2008 10:10:53 PM   
Leatherist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jenf

i have gone through metal detectors at the entrance to court...with 4 labia rings and two padlocks,,,it never once alarmed...i chatted to the guard...he says they are set to only alarm at a certain level...my tiny rings and locks were not enough to set it off...But that is a moot point to the OPs question. Chastity is achieved by keeping your legs closed. Period. To "need" something more implies you have no self control, are you a nymphomaniac who needs to be controlled?




I like it as a form of bondage. It's pretty hard to forget who owns your cunt when you can't even get at it yourself-without the keyholder being there.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/19/2008 5:13:55 AM   
xbutterflyx


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Status: offline 		ORIGINAL: jenf

i have gone through metal detectors at the entrance to court...with 4 labia rings and two padlocks,,,it never once alarmed...i chatted to the guard...he says they are set to only alarm at a certain level...my tiny rings and locks were not enough to set it off...But that is a moot point to the OPs question. Chastity is achieved by keeping your legs closed. Period. To "need" something more implies you have no self control, are you a nymphomaniac who needs to be controlled?


I never said I "needed" chasity. I want to experience other ways to be chaste . Feeling the bondage of the lock and the  reminder of who holds the key is nice too. For me, offering chasity to one is self control.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/19/2008 7:30:21 AM   
Leatherist


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Status: offline 		I'm always amused that people think the main purpose of "chastity belts" was because a woman was not trusted. Extant surviving examples seem to have been owned by noblewomen in medieval times. They were worn when traveling-to prevent rape. And still are-in many places in the world where MEN cannot be trusted.

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RE: Female Chasity - 3/19/2008 12:23:00 PM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: jenf

i have gone through metal detectors at the entrance to court...with 4 labia rings and two padlocks,,,it never once alarmed...i chatted to the guard...he says they are set to only alarm at a certain level...my tiny rings and locks were not enough to set it off...But that is a moot point to the OPs question. Chastity is achieved by keeping your legs closed. Period. To "need" something more implies you have no self control, are you a nymphomaniac who needs to be controlled?




when the security gates and metal detectors were first in use, i had to take my son to the airport for him to travel to see his grandparents.  i was wearing sweatpants, a tshirt, panties, sports bra, no jewelry save my wedding ring,   no metal....

except for my nipple rings.  i set off the detectors.  i was a lot less embarassed than the poor little girl who had to frisk me. 

and yes, it was the rings because the wand went off on that area too.

kitten, laughing remembering.

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