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Why is it - 3/18/2008 9:53:47 PM

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Why is it in a forum that is designed for people to get a Masters perspective to a question, so many submissives and thread hijackers are answering the questions??

It is time there was a ask a submissive group, oh that is right there is so try that segment and leave this to those of us that are being asked.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 9:55:29 PM

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Forums are to separate topics, not responses.

If you'd like a doms only area, yahoogroups certainly allows you to create one easily and for free.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:02:20 PM

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Just a thought, but if you are asking questions and getting valid responses, such as from people who are living with their Master/Dominant, and who would know what they (their M) would do in the situation, from life experience, then why turn away a possible good and helpful thought??

my Master/Daddy doesn't post on any forums but i certainly know what he does/would do on certain topics so i post about those things in this section if an applicable topic arises.

Why limit yourself?

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:04:45 PM

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Because they can.

I like hearing from varieties of people-even the snarky ones make me think at times.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:05:49 PM

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Im going to be a bit more blunt.
Deal.
Its a free site, and everyone is allowed to post anywhere they wish. My Fox can post here in ask a Master as easily as I can. If you honestly believe that only those who identify as Master can answer anyquestion you post, then you can take it upon yourself to edit out the ones you do not wish to read and only take the advice from those few Masters who would decide to post. Then, dont complain when you might not get the answers you want, or as many as you hoped... you would be overlooking some of theimportant answers, and better insights, becasue the gender or role didnt suit you.

Closemindedness is such an ugly trait.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:06:51 PM

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A lot of us share our Owner's perspectives, since our Owners do not post. If you do not want that, you can bypass our posts. The forums are guidelines and not Federal Law or anything like that.

It doesn't say, "Ask ONLY Masters", it says "Ask A Master." Hmm, does that mean only ONE Master can reply? Once "A" Master replies, no one else should.

Bah. Life is short. Enjoy yourself and don't get hung up on the frivolous stuff.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:13:39 PM

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I would suggest that you read the TOS of the message boards, the guidelines of this particular forum. I would also recommend that if you have trouble with a particular post that you believe does not fall into those guidelines that you report the posts to the moderator. I would also state that you could actually email one of the moderators and ask them why submissive/slave types are "allowed" to join into discussions, because this forum does not belong to "masters", it belongs to the owners of this site. They are the ones that make the rules here.... not me, not you. This is their home, and you should abide by their rules, just like you would expect a submissive to abide by yours

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:16:21 PM

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Ah the piranhas arrive so quickly, I do not care who responds but the tone of the responses are at times ridiculous to say the least.

I ask a valid question for this area, and some of you have so little regard that you try to attack in repsonse. For those few, get lost.

For the rest although I know I am right I do not object to your opinion, however when one feels they can answer for their Master, then He needs to take you down a peg or two as you should never presume to answer for him.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:19:18 PM

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hee hee....this could get entertaining......

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:23:02 PM

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pirahanas and a kitten?

Very amusing.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:23:39 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SinergyNstrumpet

I would suggest that you read the TOS of the message boards, the guidelines of this particular forum. I would also recommend that if you have trouble with a particular post that you believe does not fall into those guidelines that you report the posts to the moderator. I would also state that you could actually email one of the moderators and ask them why submissive/slave types are "allowed" to join into discussions, because this forum does not belong to "masters", it belongs to the owners of this site. They are the ones that make the rules here.... not me, not you. This is their home, and you should abide by their rules, just like you would expect a submissive to abide by yours

julia

julia read before you waffle

"This section is open to those wishing to ask questions of a Master, in the hope of receiving answers from that particular perspective.

Experienced Masters are also encouraged to share their advice and knowledge regardless of if a question has been asked to prompt response. If you know the topic to be something that is often on the minds of newer people, or a subject you have found in your experience to be beneficial to address, feel free to take the initiative and open the discussion yourself. "

The TOS you refer to.

I am not about to run to the Mods, how ridiculous, I will voice my opinion as I see fit, at least I do not show disrespect when asking the question, as others seem to.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:25:02 PM

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...however when one feels they can answer for their Master, then He needs to take you down a peg or two as you should never presume to answer for him.

He has given me blanket permission for me to state his point of view on internet message boards, as his rules of me affect far more important issues in his world. As such, you should not presume to know what other owners allow of their submissives.

As for pegs, there are no pegs with him. I am lower than a peg to him. To the rest of the world, however, I am on at least equal standing.

Think what you will - piranha, lack of regard, attackers, etc. There is a little button called "Hide". We aren't going anywhere, so if you do not appreciate our words, you can block our posts from your vision by simply pressing on that little button on our posts.

I hope your evening improves.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:25:16 PM

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is that just ask a master or a mistress...should the femmes be insulted?

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:29:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Abraxus

hee hee....this could get entertaining......

Not really, it is actually quite boring and has been hashed out before here, in fact quite recently. Maybe LA remembers that particular thread's title, because I don't. Nope, nothing original here....

I must say I find it highly amusing when a dominant sort attempts to tell a submissive sort how "wrong" their master is and how he is mastering them all "wrong" because slaves are allowed to do things such as "answer" for their masters on topics.

I suppose that would include when my Daddy has me relay messages to his landlady, he is a bad dominant. When I answer his phone and tell whoever is on the other end that he told me to tell them that he will return their call, I am a bad submissive. If he asks me to return an email from someone who has emailed both of us and convey what he asks me to, that is also wrong...just terribly amusing.

I would think telling someone else how to handle their property to be overstepping bounds. I mean no one tells me how to deal with my computer, no one tells me how to take care of my car. And whilst my UM is not "property", I believe it is fairly rude to tell someone how to relate with their UMs and what the rules of their abode should be.

BTW... the above post is my complete opinion, I did not ask my Daddy what his was before I posted it, even though it is on a couples account... and yes, couples are allowed to post here

julia

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:34:27 PM

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quote:

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Ah the piranhas arrive so quickly, I do not care who responds but the tone of the responses are at times ridiculous to say the least.

I ask a valid question for this area, and some of you have so little regard that you try to attack in repsonse. For those few, get lost.

For the rest although I know I am right I do not object to your opinion, however when one feels they can answer for their Master, then He needs to take you down a peg or two as you should never presume to answer for him.

okay firstly i am NOT a piranha and i didn't have a tone, so i will continue.

Who better to answer about what my Master would do (besides him) than me? The girl who has lived with him, serves him and knows what he HAS DONE in certain situations, things he has told me and taught me....there isn't a better person to say these things.

As for taking me down a peg or two, he doesn't need to negate me or my intelligence or spirit in order for me to be submissive to him. So knocking me down a peg or two would never need come into place, i never act out of line.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:34:51 PM

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quote:

"This section is open to those wishing to ask questions of a Master, in the hope of receiving answers from that particular perspective.

What it does not say is, "master are the only ones who can post on this forum"

You do realize that many top-types are not just masters. There are doms, tops, lords, and sirs here too. Should they quit posting?

julia

edited to say there are Daddies too

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:37:37 PM

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quote:

As for taking me down a peg or two, he doesn't need to negate me or my intelligence or spirit in order for me to be submissive to him. So knocking me down a peg or two would never need come into place, i never act out of line.

Amen!

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:38:55 PM

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I see Shit and Fans and Hitting.

I'm getting a Poncho and a Coaching Whistle.

**Seriously**

The answer to your question is that because on this site opinons are offered freely. The terms of service that got quoted also did not state that submissives could NOT answer and if this thread were only Masters answering Masters in this room I think the Bull Shit would be over our heads by now.

I ask a question however of you.

Why does it matter who answers in the ask a Master thread? If the Op is really only looking for a Masters Answer then they can ignore the ones that are not. I don't see this any different than a question asked at a Munch, people trying to help are always going to chime in.

I am more interested in the negativity on thes pages than I am who is answering what question.

Why is this a matter of contention for you?

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:52:18 PM

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quote:

This section is open to those wishing to ask questions of a Master, in the hope of receiving answers from that particular perspective.

I would have thought this says it all???

The person asking the question is asking to get a Master's answer, not a sub's answer and yet it is assumed by too many just because they can post a reply they will. It does not answer the question posed though, it is just hijacking and nothing more.

I don't give a damn if someone agrees with me or not, but do have an issue with those that choose to answer on someone elses behalf.

My question is valid as it is within the spirit of this area, it is some of your responses that show you have little regard for anyone except your self though.

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RE: Why is it - 3/18/2008 10:56:41 PM

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In all seriousness, I am curious as to how the philosophies stated on your profile are being demonstrated here:

1. I shall Dominate by silence than to raise My voice

2. I find it more effective to ignore a sub rather than to rant and rave at them

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