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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 8:05:15 AM   
OmegaG


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there was a man that I played with a while ago that felt that anyone he played with had a name other then their given name, unfortunately he wasn't to creative and chose to call me "subslut" which never quite endeared me to him.

I agree with the others that a name should have special meaning to the people involved and it should never be forced just because that is the way it's supposed to be.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 8:12:14 AM   
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It should fit them and how you look at them

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 8:37:38 AM   
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Ok Justme what kind of sub. Im partial to meatball subs. kinkypuppy should it not be how it feels to you. It should be a collective effort.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 8:40:00 AM   
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an owned sub

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 9:27:36 AM   
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He calls me his.girl.  .dark.  and my birth name.
I call him my.Boy. my Exquisite.darkness. Master, Darcy, myFett(veryoccasionaly) and his full birth name.
Others are too personal to post.
 
the.dark.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 9:31:40 AM   
Justme696


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quote:

myFett


may I ask what that means?



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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 9:35:39 AM   
RCdc


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It's to do with his Mashup DJ work.  Just think of starwars...and other such bounty hunters...
It's just happy coincidence that it also relates to the fact that his is my ultimate fett-ish as well.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 9:46:58 AM   
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i know i am not in no way shape or form a Master or Mistress.  But my Dom calls me "hun", "kat", and "greedy monkey" when ever i want more more more, which is all the time.
i do talk to a male slave online and i call him "it", i was very unconfortable with calling him that, but he says that is what he is. i also call him "my dog" and a slew of other names when he needs the humiliation, it is a learning experience, he helps me with that also. 

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 10:02:38 AM   
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In another post I shared the names my X Master called me and why.

The man I speak to loves the name I am called while on the reservation "Princess Haven" therefor he generally refers to me as His princess or My bound princess.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 11:49:09 AM   
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oh boba fett
they guy with the rockets on his back

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boba_Fett

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 11:53:47 AM   
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I called my ex "Hey Get off the Fridge!" and "Stop Humping the Vacuum!"

But I only used those outside of sexual settings.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 4:04:01 PM   
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From when I first started playing pony with others in 1993 I have tried to establish the tradition that the first person to bridle one gets to choose the name.

Generally the ponies love the idea; and mostly they've loved the name I give them.

My technique is not think about it; over a few days it just 'comes'. I just have a name that sums them up.

Some examples "Silver Sparks" for an electrical engineer with premature silver hair; "Chunky Fluff" for a very girlie-shaped blonde, who was 5 ft nothing, extremely flirtacious, 96 pounds and all muscle ...

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ORIGINAL: Drummerpunk7

As a master, what do you prefer to call your sub/slave? What pet names do you use? Do you use their vanilla names? Is it situational and if so how?

My sub wants a good name, and I'm having a hard time thinking up a good one.




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RE: Your subs name? - 3/20/2008 5:52:12 PM   
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mule is a popular one with Mistress.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 2:57:46 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Drummerpunk7
My sub wants a good name, and I'm having a hard time thinking up a good one.


The best names come from something with meaning for the both of you. This usually comes from an experience, song, or watching a favoriate movie/show together.

Not to mention, it's not what you call her, but how you call her with your voice.  



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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 3:15:42 AM   
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Ok, I can't resist. If you're a drummer, how about calling her pearl? (Ludwig and Firth don't seem to go so well...)

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 3:51:19 AM   
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my sub/slaves get personal names that I give them because of how their personality reminds me. My last slave's name was Sunny Girl because she was bright and bubbly. They all get the standard names of slut, whore, bitch, cunt, cumslut, painslut ect ect depending on my mood at the time. I try to pick something meaningful to me and them for their personal name I give them so when I call them by that name that it makes them happy and they smile at me knowing that I love them. I also call them by their christian names also.

What does she remind you of? What makes you feel good outside of her? Like a cool autumn breeze across your face? Flowers? Your dums? the harder you beat her the louder she screams?... hehe Anything that makes you feel good to call her that that she will brighten up when you call her that is what you should name her IMO

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 4:38:47 PM   
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because my slave is new she is simply reffered to as slave until i come up with a suitable name. when talking with others i refer to her by her given name but never when addressing her. it is part of her training. she must know that her name does not belong to her.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 9:01:19 PM   
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When I was a submissive I was given the name zindy by my husband....something we both sorta picked out. I haven't given him a name because well I like his given name better. Just pick or use a name you both like. When I was submissive I know the name zindy always made me feel very submissive and loved. *shrugs* but thats just me. Have fun with it and try out different things.

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/21/2008 9:25:28 PM   
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Master only uses my full name when I'm being naughty. In public or around non-kink people, he uses my nickname. Then there's "pet," "Trouble," "kitten," "cabbit..." I'm rather fond of the name Trouble, myself. 

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RE: Your subs name? - 3/23/2008 8:39:21 PM   
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I call my girl "li-li"  "slave" "slave lisa"  she especially loves it when I whisper "good girl" or "good slave" anything to give my girl thanks for all of her devoted service, but there are some names I cannot say here <wink>!!!

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