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RE: Sick after toy play - 3/30/2008 1:42:40 AM

ownedgirlie

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Sometimes (and its actually happened to me short girl=short vagina hah) when the dildo or even a longer penis hits the cervix with enough force over and over again it will cause pain and cramping in the lower abdomen similar to menstrual cramps... this can occasionally be accompanied by nausea/vomiting/dizzieness... best thing to do is just take a nap and next time take it alittle easier...

I too have had this reaction although average height.

I have as well, when he uses a rather large toy on me. Feels just like menstrual cramping afterwards. No harm done, just some cramping that goes away within a day.

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RE: Sick after toy play - 3/31/2008 1:34:36 PM

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don't know how to play alone? i would think all women know that.

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Extra super duper vanilla husband. It's hard enough to get him to "play" a little, not to mention after I get "hurt". I'll do my best to convince him.

Oh, I play alone quite often. I just prefer it with him.

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RE: Sick after toy play - 3/31/2008 1:40:19 PM

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It may be what those in the medical profession refer to ( a li'l tongue in cheek) as "honeymoon cystitis". It can, and often does, occur with no toys involved. Usually very vigorous thrusting by a well endowed man in the doggy style position ( great penetration). Sometimes as a result of the cock repeatedly banging on the uterine opening, some trauma to the tissue may occur. If, as it did for you,the pain goes away in a few hours, no problem. But, sometimes enough trama is done to the tissue that inflammation can occur and then you need to seek competent medical attention. Yea, it can be embarrassing, but not so much as , say walking into the ER and asking them to exract ( very carefully) the lightbulb up your ass. "How'd THAT get there ?

Haven't tried the light bulb, but almost lost a vibrator up there once.

And as a follow-up to my original post, having the sex "live" (no toy) re-created the situation a bit, but not as severe. No passing out, but some pain in abdomen. So I think we just have to tone it down for a little while. Unfortunately I'm not 18 any more (damn!) and don't bounce back as quickly as I used to.

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RE: Sick after toy play - 3/31/2008 1:47:46 PM

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don't know how to play alone? i would think all women know that.

I honestly don't know if that comes naturally or not. It didn't for me. I was raised hyper-conservative religious. Although I had some Dominant experiences growing up (she was my next-door neighbor of about the same age), it took me a LONG time to feel comfortable with sexual pleasure. Even now, the only way I can really orgasm is to do it myself. I enjoy sex very much, it's just not intense enough for me. I would love my husband to come into the BDSM scene with me, but he's strictly vanilla. But I still try in little ways.

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RE: Sick after toy play - 4/2/2008 1:41:09 AM

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Dildo mechanic ! - be sure to measure your pussy with a dildo .. as you know the cervix area has no nerves...your orgasm comes from the first couple inches of your pussy... many women need to stimulate there clit ot have a real orgasm...many women have a size fetish... know what size toy your pussy can accomadate comfortably...

ORGASMS - there are also nipple orgasm, anal orgasms, g spot orgasms, nipple orgasms and pussy orgasms... try what you enjoy.

Extreme surgery - I went to a play party and a couple was using a large dildo wrong... it ruptured her pussy... she had to go to emergency surgery to sew it back... the exception not norm... just notice to know what your pussy will accept not what you beg for in throes of passion...

Safe and sane play - that is why play with toys and fetish play do not use booze, dope, etc... safe and sane play.... teach hubby what the real safety issues of fetish play are...

Fisting - we have a fisting class in my area...

cunt Class - we have a cunt class in my area teachintg women to pleasure themselves...many women from conservative backgrounds are not in touch with there bodies... the class teaches women to become comfortable with there bodies

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