LuckyAlbatross
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ORIGINAL: zeebra I am very confused about switches as well. I do not understand who will decide, who will acquiesce, how change of play midscene can occur, is there a signal, what is the signal, is there a referee, or is there an agnostic view on the position where there are those who cannot decide? Does the ultimate decision rest more on one partner than on the other and does this make the majority ruler equal to, say, the Dominant one? How does it work? I wish there were more answers.. : ) I am not confused about switches, or switching in mid scene. I'm clueless about switching due to those reasons I mentioned before. FOr us, it is simply a changing of the energy between us which we both immediately recognize. There's no other way I've found to explain it and certainly no way I can tell someone how to notice it. Your questions might be less troublesome if you applied them to functional vanilla relationships- how do they work together?
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