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junecleaver -> RE: Oh, how things have changed (3/21/2008 9:36:08 PM)

Honestly, there's not much that turns me on now that didn't turn me on five years ago.  How willing I am to admit to that has definitely changed with time.[;)]




StormsSlave -> RE: Oh, how things have changed (3/21/2008 10:02:26 PM)

Lashra--
I'm with you.  I can't abide by rudeness, and would have told him to got to hell.

OmegaG-
I understand completely.  When approached by my first husband at 20 to be part of a threesome, I acted like, well a child.  I accused him of whoring me out, and he told me I was sexually repressed.  It was a mean thing for him to say, but in retrospect, he was right.  Now, I'm actively seeking out relations with others, at the behest of My Lord.

I couldn't have imagined having someone's opinion matter to me so much, and to be willing to give my will over to a MAN!  I was raised to be a strong, independent woman, and have always made my decisions on my own.  This man has enough sense and wisdom to know when he is good at something and when he should hand it over, he's smart enough to say he doesn't know, and smart enough to help me when he does.  All in all, I'm happier this way than I could ever have been.

Thanks for sharing this story.  It made me smile to realize how young and stupid I was, and made me wonder if I'll think the same thing about now in 10 years.  :)




MRandme -> RE: Oh, how things have changed (3/22/2008 2:13:33 AM)

Let's see...

my (soon to be)ex-husband was very controlling, always wanting to know where i had been, who i was with. It drove me crazy that he had these rules about things that didn't affect him, like the peanut butter that he didn't even eat. He tried to tell me who to be friends with and what i was allowed to do while out. At one point, he even tried to censor what books i read when he disapproved of the subject matter.

Today i am with a Man who uses canes, floggers, paddles etc on me. i must ask permission for personal things and will abide by His decisions even if He wouldn't know that i had disobeyed. i ask permission to go see my friends at munches.

Apples and oranges indeed, as the marriage was supposedly a relationship of equals and i had not agreed to be bound to those sorts of terms. i was unhappy with ex-hubby's attempts at control but crave the structure and discipline of my Master because i consented to it.

We all grow and change.  The things we want and need change too.  Truthfully, i don't think any of us are the same people we were 5 years ago, or even one year ago.

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