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DianeB269 -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:05:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

What's up with all the penis size threads?


Diane


Well, if you look, you'll see that the threads were started by men.  And, while not saying that women don't care about how big a guys' cock is; it's obvious that they aren't as worried about it as the men are.

Something tells me that less women will discard the possibility of an (any kind of) intimate relationship with a man over penis size than men will over breast size.

Sort of goes along the lines of the way that, after highschool and college; most women don't care quite so much about the man being physically 'perfect' while most men stick to those unrealistic ideals of feminine beauty throughout most of their lives.

Note: the above post is loaded with generalizations and i know it; if you have a problem with my personal opinion, feel free to kiss my pasty white hiney.

-darchChylde, who's scrubbing the above mentioned hiney just for you.

Edited to add: The above is not directed specifically at you DianeB269.






I was just wondering why there is 3 threads on the same subject at the sametime....


Diane

PS; I tried to have sex with a guy that had a thick 9.5" penis and he never got it in me...






slvemike4u -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:06:10 PM)

OOP's sorry wrong thread no knowledge of the subject being discussed ,sorry to intrude




kittinSol -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:07:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

However, is there anything more disappointing than a long but flacid penis [8|] ?


Not in my experience.



I suppose it can be used as skipping rope...




darchChylde -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:15:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

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ORIGINAL: darchChylde

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

However, is there anything more disappointing than a long but flacid penis [8|] ?


Not in my experience.



I suppose it can be used as skipping rope...


Now that goes way beyond the normal idea of long, what the hell kind of monsters have you been with, anyways?





Boondoggle -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:27:06 PM)

[image]http://wwwu.edu.uni-klu.ac.at/amiklaut/dr_nick/pics/len_in.gif[/image]

A very rudimentary knowledge of statistics will tell you that this data is invalid. There is absolutely no reason why this distribution should look like anything but a Gaussian, which, as Parataxis pointed out, it clearly doesn't. This is just more evidence that while the Kinsey study may have been groundbreaking in that it did illuminate some broad trends in sexuality, its data is far from scientifically rigorous.





MsBearlee -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:39:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sydneypig

I would like to share my experience since i am similiar in size(under 4inches) Every survey that i have seen would indicate that this is small.My experience with women....all have stated that this is small.
In regards to leading too a submissive mindset.....i believe it has in my mind.As a teenager i do not believe i was submissive or had submissive desires in a kinky sense.During my twenties when i started dating women i was like any male but receiving comments like "what a dissapointment"and"your such a big man,but you have such a small cock"and"you have a cock like a little boy"etc when leading to sex, had a major impact on me.At the time it was like a hit over the head,i became less confident,insecure, ashamed and felt less than a man.I began to take a more submissive role because i felt i was not a powerful male who could satisfy women.....and realized that women had the real power.So i became interested in dominant women......
As far as cuckolding goes, having been cuckolded in the more contempory sense,that is living with a woman who had affairs in our relationship which i knew.....although i felt quite negative emotions. I did not comment because i wanted her to be happy and that was more important to me than anything else.I do not have strong cuckold fantasies but i could move in that direction if a woman so desired because these days i have strong small penis humiliation desires....
I hope hearing from someone in a similiar situation helps you......  



sydney,
 
I would like to say that your post was one of the most heartfelt,  honest, and down to earth I’ve seen here.  I cannot imagine how painful it must have been, hearing that crap as a young man.  I can certainly understand how it undermined your self-worth and confidence.
 
I find it interesting and commend you for your attitude now that you have somehow managed to turn the pain around and find a way to enjoy your sexuality.  I suppose we are shaped by our experiences, aren’t we? 
 
Personally, I would hope you are able to find someone who would fit with what you desire…and cherish you for who you are and what you bring to a relationship.  You are worth that. 
 
I’m sorry…cheating is not my idea of ‘cuckolding’…not in the consensual way we here come to think of it here anyway; and unless you have agreed to an open relationship or Polyamory…it’s cheating, in my book.
 
As an aside, I sometimes think both size and penetration are over-rated.  Still, I agree with what others have said here…that it’s a good idea to become a student of cunnilingus, g-spots, rimming, use of vibrators and dildos and all kinds of other sensuality.  It is not by size alone that a man usually satisfies a woman.  And what does a big man do when he runs out of Viagra?
 
http://www.cunnilingustutor.com/
 
MsB




slvemike4u -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 3:41:51 PM)

BOONEDOGGLE there i am just passing thru again i see your graph and i got a BIG shit eating grin on my face than i read your text and you debunk the whole thing .What i'm not really on the extreme right of the graph....fuck!




sydneypig -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 4:49:12 PM)

Dear MsB
Thank you for your kind words and i hope you have a great day




MyNameisMaam -> RE: small penis..... (3/22/2008 6:00:27 PM)

I am married to a man with a smallish size - have been with others in the same boat. Age and experience has blessed me with opportunities to explore and be creative in so many physical ways that the man's length or girth isn't really relevant.
-M




MissLily -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 8:13:18 AM)

Oh man... can't help but roll My eyes when I read a post like that... It's just sounds sooo self indulging... "Please humiliate me! I have a small dick and I'm inadequate! Please please make fun of me so I get turned on!! I just need attention soooo bad.. pretty please?"

arghhh... sorry. Had to vent. Feeling better now though.

Miss Lily




CuckoldSameh -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 9:25:03 AM)

Miss Lilly ,
I've never meant that by my post !!! My questions were a sincere ones .
First , I think my penis is small , but I knew that what I might see as small , might be seen by others as an average !! I wanted to hear the opinion of several ladies....

2 nd , I wanted to know if some Mistresses would be interested - particularly - in a small dicked guy . I heard that some Mistresses prefer this when looking for a slave . So , I wanted to know if it's true....




LadyEllen -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 9:30:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh

2 nd , I wanted to know if some Mistresses would be interested - particularly - in a small dicked guy . I heard that some Mistresses prefer this when looking for a slave . So , I wanted to know if it's true....


It would be ideal for the likes of me CS, (after my trip to Thailand), but then if youre interested in the whole cuck thing, its really not that important, is it?

E




Pyrrsefanie -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 9:47:53 AM)

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ORIGINAL: CuckoldSameh
First , I think my penis is small , but I knew that what I might see as small , might be seen by others as an average


I've been told that 5.5" erect is the true average length for a penis.

And also as a little fun factoid, Michaelangelo's David has until recently been considered to be hung like a proverbial gnat... until some scientists popped up a year or so ago and pointed out that he's actually completely in proportion from an anatomical sense.




CuckoldSameh -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 10:35:42 AM)

LadyEllen ,

What do you mean by CS ?




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 10:45:34 AM)

its your name...





Boondoggle -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 11:51:11 AM)

There's no average penis size any more than there is an average breast size or an average shoe size. Sure, you can find a numerical average, but that doesn't really give any insight into how ones penis compares to his peers. Just like everything else on the body, there is a proportional relationship. Tall men, on average, are going to have bigger dicks, feet, arms, fingers, etc. than shorter men. There are also racial trends: black men are known for having substantially larger penises than white men, again, on average.

Penis size, in a vacuum, has little meaning. What matters is that you know you're small, and you're secure about it. Hell, you fetishize it. And if I've learned one thing from the internet, it's that no matter what your kink is, there's someone else out there who shares it. Or, to quote xkcd, Rule 34:

[image]http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/rule_34.png[/image]




Parataxis -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 12:54:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie


And also as a little fun factoid, Michaelangelo's David has until recently been considered to be hung like a proverbial gnat... until some scientists popped up a year or so ago and pointed out that he's actually completely in proportion from an anatomical sense.



Of course David's penis is screwed up for other reasons as well.  How somebody makes a statue of a Jewish king, and gives it an uncut cock, I'll never get. ;)




Boondoggle -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 1:02:34 PM)

Maybe Michaelangelo just had compassion? I know I couldn't cut off part of a guys dick, even if he was stone.




bipolarber -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 2:47:18 PM)

I always figured "David" posed for the statue after just getting out of the shower... and, it being a time long before water heaters, we were seeing the results of "shrinkage." ;)




darchChylde -> RE: small penis..... (3/23/2008 5:22:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Boondoggle
Penis size, in a vacuum, has little meaning


No matter your size, i still say that you shouldn't try it.

i know i'm taking it way out of context, but i can't always help myself.




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