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kitttty -> Loaned out? (3/22/2008 7:49:03 PM)

So,

I get the impression that getting loaned out is like next to scat on the list of extreme. At least that's what I am told lately.

Anyways, my whole life I was against this. Never really thought about it- just figured that a guy doesn't really care about me if he wants to loan me out.

Anyways, Master said it would amuse him. I mean, I don't think he's going to loan me out next week or something but its one of those things that at some point in the future could happen.

And it got me thinking and I realize OMG, it sounds so fucking hot. I love getting boned. Why not double or triple? I love porn and all that stuff.

Is this actually extreme-ish? It just sounds so appealing that I am surprised so many people would be so against it.



Bound2One -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 7:58:27 PM)

There was a long thread about this not too long ago.  I think it appeals to some; others are not into sharing being shared.  Personally, while it may sound hot in a fantasy, I don't think the reality would appeal to me.  Also, Master isn't into sharing me one bit with another man... so it won't be in our future.  To each his/her own!



KCherry -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:05:18 PM)

I think it is a personal choice, if it is something your comfortable with, great. If not, you should make sure you make that decision known.  I personally don't find it to be "extreme-ish" as long as you are happy with it and being safe. :)



kitttty -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:07:21 PM)

I always figured I would end up with a territorial master who would never share me but I seem to have not. My Master does not care so long as I dont submit to another guy.

For me, being double penetrated is degrading enough to be erotic even if its vanilla.

I kinda hope I get to try it someday. And I kinda hope my Master sits there and watches.



DesFIP -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:15:00 PM)

I don't enjoy casual sex. I can't imagine having any enjoyment with no relationship involved. Just Tab A being shoved into Slot B kind of thing. But I don't enjoy being objectified either so that may enter into it.

Plus disease transmission is a worry. Condoms don't stop everything. And I doubt some random guy would be willing to be celibate for six months while two different std scans are being done.



kitttty -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:18:30 PM)

Yeah, the disease thing is gross. And none of my previous partners would work for this purpose either.



Leatherist -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:20:28 PM)

Isn't that the reason so many Doms like having two bi girls? One girl can ride the other's strap on while the dom fucks the cowgirl's ass? [;)]

Who needs another male?



slvemike4u -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 8:37:06 PM)

Loan me out if You like just don't forget where You left me



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 9:19:32 PM)

I actually would say loaned out tends to be more 8th-12th on the list in the scene in general.

The idea of it is pretty hot- the reality can be pretty hot, pretty boring, or pretty harmful depending on how its done.



Poetryinpain -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 9:20:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Loan me out if You like just don't forget where You left me


You need one of those cards like is in library books, with a time limit and a fine if you're not returned on time.



slvemike4u -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 10:45:45 PM)

Next i suppose you'll want to put a  bar code on me



Willowmoon -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 11:00:41 PM)

I can think of plenty of things i would do if Master wanted me to but not that. To me sex is a sacred/spiritual thing and not something that I could do with just anyone. I have only ever had sex with someone I was in a relationship with and had strong feelings for.

Willow



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Loaned out? (3/22/2008 11:22:49 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Willowmoon
I can think of plenty of things i would do if Master wanted me to but not that. To me sex is a sacred/spiritual thing and not something that I could do with just anyone. I have only ever had sex with someone I was in a relationship with and had strong feelings for.

Willow

I'm sure you have many things you could be loaned out for other than sexual purposes.



Justme696 -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 2:10:42 AM)

as LA said..you can be loaned out for many reasons. IF you are a sub..you can refuse of course....as a slave..you have not a choice.
Loaning out can be much..the person can fuck you...give you to the dogs :P , whip you, make you clean, electro shock you. He is not your Master....and doesn't need to give you anything besides respect to your Master.



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 2:35:06 AM)

My boy sometimes dreams of being loaned out. Not sure if I would ever do such a thing but just in general, I do want to make his dreams come true. He'd better be careful what he wishes for... *evil grin*

Any Dommes out there dream of having a boy loaned to you?????

The only other boy I ever dream of besides my slave, is not owned. If he was, I wouldn't want him loaned to me, I don't think. So if most other Dommes were like me, then this would be a very uncommon desire, among us. But I don't seem to be very much like other Dommes, according to the boys.



CelticPrince -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 4:42:24 AM)

quote:

Is this actually extreme-ish? It just sounds so appealing that I am surprised so many people would be so against it.


kittty,

There arte far more sub/slaves that would like to try it, but are afraid to discuss it with mtheir "D" for fear that it might look like the "D" was not enough.

CP



SlaveRayleene -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 5:20:55 AM)

Master loaned me out to a whip master to further my training.

quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

quote:

ORIGINAL: Willowmoon
I can think of plenty of things i would do if Master wanted me to but not that. To me sex is a sacred/spiritual thing and not something that I could do with just anyone. I have only ever had sex with someone I was in a relationship with and had strong feelings for.

Willow

I'm sure you have many things you could be loaned out for other than sexual purposes.



BeingChewsie -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 5:37:55 AM)

Quick reply:

Loaning you out to a kennel might fall a little more to the extreme but loaning you out to other men or women is pretty common and doesn't ping on the extreme meter.



Justme696 -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 5:44:56 AM)

quote:

doesn't ping on the extreme meter.


that depends on the person



MontrealPhoenix -> RE: Loaned out? (3/23/2008 7:14:26 AM)

I agree with Des, with so many nasty diseases out there, it's hardly something i would be comfortable with. Besides the idea and the reality can be radically different.



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