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Najakcharmer -> RE: interesting why i dont get any one viewing me when said im looking for real thing (3/24/2008 7:13:38 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OmegaG
when the subs out number the Dommes, why would they bother looking at a profile without a picture?
Depends on what they're looking for. I'm trolling for fellow intellectuals, geeks and gamers, so a username that shouts "geek" or "gamer" or that is a clever literary or scholarly reference is going to get my interest and attention faster than any picture. Unless it's a picture that involves SCA/Ren Faire costumes.
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But with the profile you present and the off-putting username, why would they stick around even if they did look?
Yeah, anything I get in my inbox from someone with a vulgar or sexually explicit name is deleted unread since I already know what it will say and am not interested. If the nick isn't vulgar but is otherwise negative and off-putting rather than being a positive picture of a person I might like to get to know, same story. Life is too short to spend with whiners, demanders and other "black holes" who take your energy and give nothing of interest in return. And I'm not talking about money either.
If you have nothing to offer a dominant that she is genuinely interested in, then paying a pro is a pretty fair transaction, and a lot politer than demanding that dominant women cater to your needs without getting anything that makes them happy in return. If you're not the kind of fun, happy, intelligent, engaging and positive person whose presence gives energy to others rather than just draining it, then money may well be the only commodity you can offer, and pro dommes would be the only ones who would be interested.
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