Real_Trouble -> RE: I lack empathy. (3/24/2008 10:57:20 PM)
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I confess I am not a terribly empathic person. In fact, it would be accurate to say that more than one of my friends has referred to me as a hard son of a bitch, or words to that effect. Even so, that doesn't mean you either need to be cold or inconsiderate. Taking an interest in others doesn't need to start with an intimate connection to their feelings; observe their interests and ask about them, or simply try to figure out what is on their mind. People are, at least to me, fascinating creatures, so if you look for why you were interested in them in the first place, then you should never lack for ways to open a conversation.
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