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Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/26/2008 8:11:47 AM

URFarmPet

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I am so happy to report on a positive real time experience. Being that I toot myself as a piggie slut you can only imagine some of the emails I get. But I try to always be honest in my profiles and 1) i am a big girl & 2) i very much enjoy and need an element of humiliation in my play.
Emails are what I depend on when deciding on real time and this Dom was indeed a Master of words. As luck would have it, I recently moved and he was located closer to my old hometown. So I took a trip back via his place, which was another plus, exited off the interstate, hotel was right there, got a room and later that night went to his place, a few blocks down the street. Just felt better and safer having a place I could go back too right there and also felt better being able to clean up after the trip!
But what really impressed me with this Dom was the following line he wrote in an email to me; "As you already know, I am not here to injure or harm you. I respect what you are and what gets you off...I am here to provide this to you and in doing so, provide it to myself, as well."
We had a great night and saw each other again but alas his job took him even further away.
But I grew wiser from our experience because no matter what you seek from this lifestyle it should be respected.
Now you want to hear about the ones that didn't turn out so good???
Oh but on the latest news front I do have real time planned this weekend with a Dominant Couple!! I meet here, mmmmmm a couple, pig is indeed tickled pink! Will let you know how it goes.

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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/26/2008 9:44:14 AM

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i am sure you have your own filters to assure your safety in meeting with Dominants the first time in their homes. the one and only time i met a Dominant in a hotel for play after only e-mails and few phone calls did not work so well for me. he did not hurt me physically, but the emotional harm was great. i thank my good fate to have dear submissive friends and their ability to pick up the broken pieces and help me to become whole again. i learned an important lesson that day and one i will always heed.
i wish you safety and all the best in your quest.
everhope

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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/27/2008 10:57:17 AM

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Everhope, I am so sorry you had a bad experience, they can really break your spirit. Thanks for your concern I do have my own tricks I employ to secure my safety. Stay well.
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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/27/2008 12:29:13 PM

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that was many years ago...my spirit is strong. i am just much more careful where i let my longings take me.
warm smiles,
everhope

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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/28/2008 4:56:17 AM

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As with the nilla world you get the good and the bad i'm afraid. I have had my share of the bad... but now have the very best :)

Just as you had wise words said in an email my Master did the same thing... telling nova my gift to Him was so precious that He will take good care of it. Don't get me wrong i'm a painslut so i love pain :) but Master has shown me the right was to have that inflicted, and has also shown me how important the aftercare is. That is what was sorely lacking in past experiences. I'd given up hope of finding a caring Dom, but we found each other :-) He was looking for a painslut and nova is happy oblige ;-) its a tough job and i love it.

I hope you both have enjoyment and pleasure on your journeys!

x novaslave x

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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 3/28/2008 6:53:58 AM

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Hi Nova, thanks for the imput and congratulations on finding a caring Dom, yes it is indeed a journey.

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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 4/1/2008 1:14:48 AM

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I would be most interested in know what your safety tricks are. I'm new to this, and anything helpful would definately be appreciated! Thanks!
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RE: Blessed with a Class Act Dom - 4/2/2008 7:00:47 AM

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I hope you enjoyed your weekend with the Dom couple. It is a dangerous world out there and important to make sure you are safe. For future meetings, tell someone where you're going and make some plans to contact and report your status. Despite the nature of this lifestyle, you can't blame people for looking out for their safety when you're meeting someone for the first time.

M4STER

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