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RE: how to deal? - 10/5/2005 9:22:34 PM

mystictryst

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It doesn't always end up badly...

After my Master dropped me off from our first date (he wasn't my Master then, just a first date, we'd only chatted on the phone the entire night before), I came home to a series of frantic messages - my mother had gone missing.

His number was in my hand.

I called it. He wasn't there, obviously, so I left a message. I then called my sister to find out what happened.

He called me back, we chatted all night. I was hooked.

He didn't call me for two agonizing days. I think I left one message the first day and resolved he didn't like me. (Thanks, Emerald, I did not know about sub frenzy, would have been helpful all those years ago!)...

Turns out, he did like me. A lot too. We've been together for 7 years now and I attribute it in part to my frantic call.

Oh, did I mention? In the series of messages from my sister regarding my mother, I already knew that my mother had been found - alive and well in a hotel room a couple hours from home, she needed to think.. But he didn't need to know that... *wink*

I'm sorry that things went the way they did - not all Doms are like that!

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RE: how to deal? - 10/6/2005 8:17:03 AM

RainGod

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I have been guilty of being an 'attention slut' before. I love when girl showers Me with attention. I love My girl to call Me... daily. I do not restrict how many times she can call, because I like it... to a point.

My girl I have now is perfect in this sense because she knows how to use restraint and good judgement. However, some time ago, I was seeing a submissive who had a very odd habit. she would telephone Me the minute she figured I would be in from work, and talk, talk, talk. Thats was all well and good. Later on, it progressed to the point where she would simply stay on the line without sayng anything... we had run out of things to say. She would want to watch whatever TV program I was watching... so we could "watch together".

As a single parent, My time is very critical in the evenings , with cooking, cleaning and such to do. Due to this, the three and four hour calls became bothersome and I told her so. She completely blew up and accused Me of wanting to get off the phone so other girls could call. she actually admitted that tying up My time on the phone was her way of assuring I wouldn't have time to persue others. That was too much in My opinion...

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Love is a razor & I walk the line on that silver blade... slept in the dust with His daughter her eyes red with the slaughter of innocence... The evil that men do lives on & on.
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