underhisthumb -> RE: 'Switch' as catch-all for outsiders (4/3/2008 8:50:26 AM)
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I identify as a switch because well, I tend to want to submit to men and be dominant with women. In fact, I have a couple of men ask me to top them, and while I can lend myself tot he BDSM side of it and wield a flogger or tie up their cocks, I cannot really feel any true power over them. There is no true M/s or D/s element for me, even when they are licking my boots and Im telling them what pathetic little boys they are. For me it is all a perfomance. It just doesn't "mesh" with who I am, if you will. Someone once told me that would make me the perfect pro Domina, but I dont know. Women however, for some reason I almost always tend to find myself needing the power exchange and flow with me as the dominant being. Dont get me wrong, I can be topped by a woman, especially at Master's command. But I guess the more natural state for me is to want to be the one in control and not vice versa. I dont think that probablly helps any, but thats where I identify myself.
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