Aine -> RE: Switches Only (4/7/2008 9:26:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tebe12345 My boyfriend and I are both switches, and we actually go back and forth multiple times in the same play unit. I was always dissatisfied in the past whenever I'd have to consistently stick to one role. I realize that a lot of times when people say switch it isn't for the same session, but I definitely see it as legitimate as either of the others if you can't be satisfied with any other option. I like exploring everything. Maybe I don't take the roles seriously enough to be considered in this kind of discussion, but that's what I think about it. I love you. I thought I was one of the rare few that -can- and -enjoys- switching within one relationship, let alone within a playtime. I don't feel quite so strange now lol *jumps up and down happily* Basically to the OP: Dun let it bother you. Walk away from people who obviously don't want to be accepting of something even if they don't comprehend it. It's not worth the headache. I used to get so worked up over being called "confused" or not "TWUE" in one or the other. Rise above the anger, walk away from the negative. Nothing wrong with not engaging conversation with people that aren't open. If someone is and is curious about honestly trying to understand what we are, then keep your cool and explain it in the best way you can. Be what you are, and have no apologies for it. But don't shove it in people's faces. People of all sorts are guilty of this. They shove -what- they are in the faces of people around them, and generally those are the people that don't want to understand or are too much in their own way to try to understand something different or be open to accepting something that they might not completely understand. Understanding isn't something we need to have all the time to accept something.
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