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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/7/2008 4:04:15 PM

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New terminology I just heard the other day:

Bar-Sexual: Girls who make out with each other in bars or social settings simply for the attention it gets them...

lol

interesting topic, both sides make sense but i also dont really see why it is such a big deal for women to be bi for their masters (then again i am bi lol)

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/7/2008 4:24:40 PM

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It is basically about making assumption. Hopefully the irony is not lost on anyone.

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Matthew, irony is lost on most here. I used to go by "CrappyDom" on here and I swear to god people would object to things I said because, well, I was a crappy dom!

Great profile by the way, make sure you say hello if you see me in SF and I will look for you if you play in public.

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/7/2008 9:49:20 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: SFCityDom

It is basically about making assumption. Hopefully the irony is not lost on anyone.

-Matthew aka SFCityDom.
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Matthew, irony is lost on most here. I used to go by "CrappyDom" on here and I swear to god people would object to things I said because, well, I was a crappy dom!

Great profile by the way, make sure you say hello if you see me in SF and I will look for you if you play in public.

Michael

LOL..it was a pity you were unable to fully cover up the potential under the craptacular pseudonym.....that was why many objected....Tempting

BTW: irony is often not lost....just ignored...

< Message edited by TemptingNviceSub -- 4/7/2008 9:50:22 PM >

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/7/2008 10:32:42 PM

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I wouldn't play it gay for anyone

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/7/2008 11:03:11 PM

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Don't smack me if I'm repeating what someone else has said, I'm time poor and haven't been able to read all posted responses, but bisexual doesn't mean you can have sex with both genders- bisexual means you have relationships with both genders, at least in my opinion. If I just wanted to have sex with women, I wouldn't consider myself bisexual. Having had relationships with women, I would and do consider myself bisexual.

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/12/2008 1:16:04 AM

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Haven't read to the end of the thread as I went to SFCityDom's profile to find out what all the fuss was about. I thought his post was very intelligent, well put and the last 3 paragraphs had my Master and I laughing out loud - so true and funny.

Shame someone felt that putting a couple of lines out of context on the boards would be a good idea, I wonder at their motives.........

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/12/2008 3:38:10 AM

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I'm submissive and totally straight

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/12/2008 8:20:52 AM

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Im LUBEGIRl..meaning i love to lube the ladies up and lick their clits and make sure they are clean, wet and aroused before MASTER indulges in HIS pleasure.
I love being intimate with another female, kissing, licking..touching so it is a treat when MASTER includes me to partake in the fun.

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/12/2008 11:48:37 AM

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Not bi...not interested...at least not in the intimacies of fucking..but I've got no problem letting some hot toppy chick beat the fuck out of me

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/12/2008 3:34:20 PM

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Yuck. That really devalues both submission and bisexuality.

It is true that there are quite a lot of women in BDSM communities who are bisexual, and that there are quite a lot of women in BDSM communities who submit (either as part of their switch identities, or as their primary identity), and that there's a lot of overlap between those groups, so much that it might lead people to make erroneous guesses about sexual- or power- orientation at play parties. Heck, in general there are more openly bi people in alt-sex communities than there are generally--the better test case there is bi men, but that's another thread. At any rate, it's true that some female submissives will consent to homosexual activities that they wouldn't seek out ordinarily, perhaps as part of a "forced bi" experience. And it's certainly true that this particular person gets to say that he wants a relationship with a person (a woman?) who is both submissive and bisexual.

But for heaven's sake...even if it's common, and even if it's a reasonable thing to ask for, it's not a universal rule, and part of politeness is recognizing that! When I've gauged someone's sexual- or power- orientation wrongly, or when I've failed to appreciate a nuance of it (like a woman who identifies as a bi switch, but who bottoms to men and tops women), I've tried very hard to withdraw with graceful apologies, and I've also tried to be gracious when people peg me wrongly. I think that this guy might have a reasonable idea to express (I want a bi submissive) but he's going about it altogether wrongly.

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/13/2008 12:00:17 PM

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Just curious, why do we even care what some person on here has on their profile? Unless your planning on meeting them or having a relationship with them why does it matter? So he wants a bi submissive, if your bi then he is the one for you if your not then pass him by. I just dont understand why we have to bring it to the message boards.

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/22/2008 8:22:00 PM

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i think that is a rediculous assumption, that submissives are naturally bi-sexual. And very bias thank you. i don't care who you are whether your a submissive/slave or whatever if your orientation is straight then that's exactly what you are and that should be a hard limit for you. Fortuately i have been bi-sexual since high school so i don't know any other way and i am very up front with whom i am with. Some have liked it, some have not, some drove me crazy with it. But bottom line was i don't really like to share my lovers if i am in a relationship with a man i am with Him and the same goes for a woman. The last woman i was with lasted 10 years. But honesty and communication is key with every interest in a relationship. Even on my profile i am adament about being bi-sexual so there's no confusion. i have communicated with my daddy in regards to my orienation and He is not pushy about He doesn't want to join in the fun. it merely who i am and i think sexually it makes me more uninhibited. i also added on my profile that my interests aren't just seeking a male Dominant but a switch woman. i would be very happy serving either one. Daddy came along mirrored my interests to got to know one another and now we are evolving in to a D/s dynamic. Although He has suggested that if i would want a female to interact with sexually i have His permission without His being there. But that would be my decision. Just don't assume that we are all lumped together in this bi-sexual curiousity play. Because i would not play with someone that is just curious or forced to do it. Simply put if someone is forced to have sex with someone that they do not feel comfortable with that is nothing more than molesting,

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RE: Of Course You Are Bi. You’re A Submissive - 4/23/2008 3:38:57 AM

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bi-mental = those who can present themselves as intelligent or retarded by choice

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