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Evanesce -> RE: Queen Bitch (10/6/2005 9:37:24 AM)
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Well, you see... there is a difference between being a bitch, and being a Queen Bitch. A bitch is simply someone who is... well... bitchy, whiney, spoiled, contrary, antagonistic... I could go on, but I think you get the point.
A Queen Bitch, however, is above all that pettiness. I refer to myself as a Queen Bitch when dealing with slaves and submissives in my control because, to them, I am the ultimate authority. I give them what they need, and they always return for more, but I am also absolute in my demands of them, and I do not tolerate slackers and complainers. I expect to be obeyed, and my word is final. In a somewhat haughty, regal sort of way.
When involved in a scene, the male submissives I play with tend to like that persona a great deal. Somehow, they seem to feel it makes me "more worthy" of their worship.
It's interesting, because I had another dominant friend of mine and two submissive males over helping me work on Master's dungeon. As we were installing vinyl on the floor of one room, my friend commented on a way she thought would work best to get it in straight, and one of the men suggested something else, after which I then stated how it was going to be done. No discussion or dispute followed... no one disagreed with my method, I told each person what they needed to do and when, and the floor was laid perfectly. The other submissive said, "Well, I guess we know who's in charge here, don't we?" THAT, to me, is what being Queen Bitch is about... having your word obeyed without question.
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FLButtSlut said: "And isn't it somewhat interesting that we two are willing to proclaim it and are of the sub/slave persuasion?"
Very interesting, indeed. Although I do also consider myself dominant as well (as does everyone else who knows me in person).
Denise
the Kaptin's wench
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