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? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 12:09:34 AM

elfinslave

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Hi,
I have learned recently that I really want to surprice my Master and become more serving of Him. Cab anyone suggest anything?

Also does anyone have any ideas of a site that I might look at for this and also for idea on how to keep the mind set of a slave?

Thanks,
elfinslave
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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 1:42:32 AM

pandoravampire

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Hello elfinslave,
apart from the two obvious, ask your master and obey, here's some recipe's my Dominant may have found pleasing, gathered from here, literotica, bdsm stories etc

Get dressed up, and shampoo and wax his car, whilst he sits and watches the show.
Cook a favourite meal of his to come home to, candlelit
Greet him at the door with a ribbon around your neck
Get him in the shower/bath, and cleanse him from head to foot, dry and moisturise.
Give him a facial
Massage
Strip poker
Hire his favourite movie
Buy him a new toy for you to use, that gives him pleasure
Tell his fortune, and ham it up as to what is going to occur that night, then do it
Anticipate what he wants
Teach yourself to squirt
Put on a show/lap dance/striptease
Dress up for the evening
Dress down for the evening
set up a tent outside and go in there for a play
run him a scented candlelit bath
rummage through his porn and gather any hints in themes. Watch for the bits that flicker on the screen, where he's rewound over and over a certain shot, and do it.
Eat a ice lolly whilst you give him a blow job
try ice in your pussy 'off screen' then lower yourself onto him without telling him
try toothpaste on your tongue then licking and sucking him
sit on the basin and play with yourself, then piss for him while he watches

Basically anything is worth a try, watch carefully for reactions, he will let you know what is ok, and what is not, do not assume your not allowed to do certain things coz he's M and your s.
If ive tried something new, i ask him after how was it for him lol.

As for reading that will keep your mind in the right space. Read thisboard and literotica's.
What keeps my mind in the right place living it.
Good luck

Now im waiting for lots of other suggestions so that i can grab some new ones please

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 3:26:09 AM

ownedjulia

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quote:

ORIGINAL: elfinslave

Hi,
I have learned recently that I really want to surprice my Master and become more serving of Him. Cab anyone suggest anything?

Also does anyone have any ideas of a site that I might look at for this and also for idea on how to keep the mind set of a slave?

Thanks,
elfinslave
happily owned by analytical master

My favourite way to serve my Master is to always do that bit EXTRA for than he has ordered or to try to anticipate his needs before he has to order.

The one that always works? cook him his favourite meal and give him a massage, espeically after a day at work.

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 6:08:27 AM

sweetpettjenny

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i wrote a slaves creed and live by it

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 6:11:03 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
My very favorite thing to do is to cook his dinner in nothing but a shear plastic full apron & then feed it to him. I love the way the plastic feels swooshing against my skin & he loves to watch me cook and enjoys being fed.
Pretty much my Master is very turned on when I perform domestic duties. He gets really turned on watching me scrub the tub, wash the floors on my hands and knees, and cook. Sometimes if the kids are not home he spanks me & plays with me while I'm cooking. It's very challenging to keep focused on dinner tasks while we go through manipulations. The hardest thing was when I was making 10lbs of Potato Salad for a barbecue the next day. How the egg shells didn't all end up in the dish I just don't know.

Maybe you can find a way to mix your domestic chores and his pleasure as well. I love being able to serve my Master in this multi tasking way. We have a lot of fun with my chores sometimes.

Other than that, I've just ordered two books that may help you. I ordered them from amazon.com. They are
Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual &
Slavecraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude.

I'm hoping they can enlighten me; maybe they can help you too.

SIncerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 6:33:38 AM

EmeraldSlave2

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quote:

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Hi,
I have learned recently that I really want to surprice my Master and become more serving of Him. Cab anyone suggest anything?

Join the Peace Corps? This question totally depends on what your dom will like or not like. Some slaves aren't even allowed to buy presents for their owners.

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Also does anyone have any ideas of a site that I might look at for this and also for idea on how to keep the mind set of a slave?

Thanks,
elfinslave

That assumes that there IS "a mindset of a slave"

No one FEELS like serving and submitting all the time. We all have days we're tired, sick, achy, yucky, or just plain pissed.

That's normal. In fact I'd say it's healthy.

The issue is whether you still continue to obey and hold to the commitments you made. And the only way to do that is simply to do it. Sometimes the best way to feel like obeying is just to obey.

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 8:46:50 AM

sub4hire

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I have learned recently that I really want to surprice my Master and become more serving of Him. Cab anyone suggest anything?

Nobody can answer your question for you but him. What does he like to do? What relaxes him? People are different.

If I were a dom...the one thing that would please me the most is having a man to go hiking with who did not get hurt, nor whine and who could go on a daily routine.
My dom goes with me.....but he has a bad back that is hereditary. Anyway, the point is we all have different likes and dislikes.

What works for one won't work for another.
Ask him, how can I please you bettter? You may be surprised at the answers you get.

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RE: ? quest and more ? - 10/7/2005 2:13:48 PM

JustaTop

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If you know him,you will know what will please him.

Just think,any advice we can offer you will pale by comparison to your personal vision of the man.