leadership527
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wow, something I said made complete sense to someone. Clearly I need to drink more *laughs* More seriously... in the end, for us at least, it's a relationship. She has given herself to me about as completely as a person can. In return, I am responsible for ALL of her, not just the convenient parts. If my girl has a need, whether it's to move and live in a different area, get a different job (or maybe no job), or tie me up in the bedroom... those are ALL my problem. I liked what someone else wrote about being a Master... As the Master, I choose when and how my slaves needs will be met.. not IF they are met. Conveniently for me, I also happen to like being on the bottom sometimes. Does any or all of this make me "switch"?? Honestly, I don't really care. Does it make me less domly in some subs eyes? Sure, but since I wouldn't be interested in any sub who saw it like that anyway, no issue there. Might there even be *hushed silence from the crowd* some bits of submission in my personality? God forbid but it may be true *laughs*. Summer, I highly encourage you to embrace who you ACTUALLY are. If you have fantasies... explore them.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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