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softpjOS -> RE: Room for humanity? (4/13/2008 1:56:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadybugBlue
A question for all subs/slaves out there... Is it reasonable for a Dom/me to require/request that their pets/slaves/subs allow for room for their humanity, their growth as a Dom/me, and their own personal stressors/styles/needs? Are you generally open to a variety of discipline styles, including merely a look or being ignored as punishment in public?
yes, yes and yes. DEPENDING on the relationship dynamic. It revolves around what has been agreed to by both parties.
In my own relationship, i knew from day one that i was Mistress's first and as such, knew that over time She would *most likely* "grow" within Her "role". No different then She was my first and i had lots of room to learn and grow as well. So, we've grown together in many ways :)
First and foremost we are people with real emotions, real feelings, dealing with real life. I do not expect Her to focus strictly on our relationship dynamic, and be "on" at all times. She is my Mistress always, regardless of how She is "dealing with life". Dominants are allowed to cry, feel anger, or just need to snuggle.
Punishment is Her decision. Every detail of it. Personally, i would not behave in a manner needing "punishment" in public. Refocused perhaps lol but punished? umm no. A look is generally all it takes to get me to straighten up. And most often the "offense" is being silly. lol. Mistress always makes the "punishment fit the crime" as She says. So, yes, She uses a wide variety of punishments.
Now, if the relationship is one strictly a casual play or professional service, yes, i can see where the sub could easily expect the Dommes to be "in role at all times". Otherwise, people are human, regardless of which side of the whip they play on.
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