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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 7:19:12 PM   
atendersoul


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maybe to see if one is mentally stable to play with.....same questions in different ways to see if the same answers come back....

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 7:39:49 PM   
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It's interesting, Miss Sepphora, that although you started this thread talking about all the sub men who ask you all sorts of personal questions,  you've mostly been getting challenged by other women and Dom men. The women here usually are highly critical of sub men, the majority of whom they claim, don't read their profiles, send them short messages just talking about their desire for a scene and don't take the time to learn anything about them as a person.

If they're right, you ought to be by all rights most of the subs in this place dream!

If what all the other dominant women here say is true, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of the 20 questions you are getting is simply conditioning  or wariness that your profile may be some trick to find out if they really are interested in you. Maybe they are just afraid to come out and say what they really want to: okay, which hotel shall I book?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 8:21:12 PM   
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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 8:35:20 PM   
MissSepphora1


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haha... I wouldn't know, since I don't read minds.  ;)

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ORIGINAL: WalterRego

It's interesting, Miss Sepphora, that although you started this thread talking about all the sub men who ask you all sorts of personal questions,  you've mostly been getting challenged by other women and Dom men. The women here usually are highly critical of sub men, the majority of whom they claim, don't read their profiles, send them short messages just talking about their desire for a scene and don't take the time to learn anything about them as a person.

If they're right, you ought to be by all rights most of the subs in this place dream!

If what all the other dominant women here say is true, I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of the 20 questions you are getting is simply conditioning  or wariness that your profile may be some trick to find out if they really are interested in you. Maybe they are just afraid to come out and say what they really want to: okay, which hotel shall I book?

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/11/2008 8:36:37 PM   
MissSepphora1


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oh hell no.
those things make me insane.  if i wasn't crazy to start with, i'd be crazy after one of those tests.

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maybe to see if one is mentally stable to play with.....same questions in different ways to see if the same answers come back....

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/12/2008 2:43:10 AM   
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People are, understandable, more cautious when meeting off the internet. If you want a "meet and beat", you'll have a LOT more luck in a dungeon or at a party rather than online. Trust me on that...I've done a LOT of meet and beats in my time.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/13/2008 1:56:25 AM   
SayaNereida


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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

I just want to find someone to scene with for now.
So why do subs need to ask 20 question about my personal life in order to assertain if they want to scene with me.
I mean, ask 20 questions about my interests in the scene is fine.  But hell I've been grilled less in job interviews.
I don't want to marry you, I just want to have a little physical interaction.  IS THAT SO WRONG!?!?!


YOU just want 'a little physical interaction' but you are interacting with someone else's body, mind and emotions.  Were it me, I'd ask and expect answer to any question I found pertinent for ME to determine if you are safe enough.

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RE: 20 Questions - 4/13/2008 10:39:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MissSepphora1

Jesus Christ, if you're driving all the way to see me - whatever - and all you're worried about the whole time is my kids, then screw you.  Don't even bother.


the first time Daddy and i had a face-to-face meeting, everything was going fine.

then my son called, he was running a fever and throwing up, i had to come pick him up from school RIGHT then.  this stuff DOES happen.  i'm a mama first, until he reaches the age that he can care for himself.

and Daddy KNOWS this and understands.  i'm not some little doll baby that exists in a cardboard box until he decides to take me out and play with me.  i'm a human being and so is he.  he has issues he deals with also, and so we cant see each other as often as we would like.

so yeah, in that since it IS important to know things like "i'm a responsible single parent".  it might suck that you have to be that...but there ya go.

kitten

edit to add:  he's driving about an hour and a half to see me.  so that isnt a short trip to have the visit cut short.

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