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2 Doms - 4/11/2008 7:38:19 AM

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My Master asked me about 5 mins ago how i would feel being blindfolded and tied up and another man/Dom entering room........one doing spanking etc and the other doing pleasure i said I am yours to do with as You wish Master but inside i have
butterflies, has anyone else been approached by your Masters about this proposition and how did or would you react???

RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 7:44:20 AM

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That would worry me... but I'm sure your Dom wouldn't let any harm come to you. Talk to him about your feelings maybe he can reasure you or decide not to bring another Dom in. Or you can try it. You never know what you might like till you try it, it might be a turn on to you.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 7:53:00 AM

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If my Mistress instructed me to do this I would, but I was being given a choice about it, I wouldn’t.
Submission is highly personal to me, I submit to her and only her, there is none of my submission that she hasn’t earned or inspired. I just couldn’t wilfully submit to another, I’d find it extremely difficult.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 7:55:50 AM

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It has been suggested to me, and I felt the same butterflies. But I'm not sure if they were butterflies of worry or of anticipation.

I have never even considered the idea of two men at once. But when he mentioned it the first time, I felt a quiver that was not simply rejection of the idea. I didn't jump for joy at the thought, but I also didn't say 'no way no how.' He hasn't mentioned it since, and I wonder if he's giving me time to absorb and wrap myself around the idea before bringing it up again.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 8:38:58 AM

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I would be very cautious if I were you on this because it could ruin your relationship with your Dom in the end. I say this because I was in a similar situation with a Dom and became really jealouse and psycho with me after it happened. Plus the other Dom who was there gave me an explosive orgasm with oral My ex Dom watched the look on his face was I couldn't describe it but it was scary.

After that he threatened me, this guy was crazy. I then had my head in his lap and he pushed my face down into his crotch and he said are you dead yet? I said no, he said he was trying to smother me with his co%^. After that I knew I was in trouble. So I would tread very lightly with this subject, and just be careful because it could backfire on you bigtime. Good luck to you.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 9:04:22 AM

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It is a long time fantasy of mine to be involved in a MFM fantasy. I am sure I would be nervous at first, but my Daddy has promised me that He would let me know in advance - not just spring it on me - and that He would keep things safe (have the man wear a condom, make sure that nothing was done to hurt me, etc.).

What was much more difficult for me was the idea of another woman being involved. I have no interest in touching another woman or being touched by her.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 9:14:20 AM

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It is a long time fantasy of mine to be involved in a MFM fantasy. I am sure I would be nervous at first, but my Daddy has promised me that He would let me know in advance - not just spring it on me - and that He would keep things safe (have the man wear a condom, make sure that nothing was done to hurt me, etc.).

What was much more difficult for me was the idea of another woman being involved. I have no interest in touching another woman or being touched by her.

What does another woman have to do with a MFM fantasy?

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 9:16:17 AM

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Sorry if that was confusing. I was trying to contrast my feelings about a MFM situation compared to a MFF situation. One I would do gladly, though a little nervous, the other I would do only because it was required of me and would have to fight back my own feelings of disgust.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 9:17:22 AM

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Mabey the other guy brought his wife along.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 9:53:15 AM

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thank you A/all
Part of me is wooohoooo lets do it which is my heart
my head says dont do it girl
If its an order from Him i have no choice but at the moment its a suggestion

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 10:29:43 AM

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I would be very careful if i was you. i am sure your Dom would make sure you were safe and all. it could change you relationship forever.

Matt's littleone

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 10:37:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chyanna

My Master asked me about 5 mins ago how i would feel being blindfolded and tied up and another man/Dom entering room........one doing spanking etc and the other doing pleasure i said I am yours to do with as You wish Master but inside i have
butterflies, has anyone else been approached by your Masters about this proposition and how did or would you react???

Hmm, this has been a fantasy of mine (let me repeat fantasy!) for a while now. My Master is totally enough for me, in all aspects of my life, but recently He has told me He is going to make the fantasy a reality...and maybe soon. The butterflies started flying i can tell you! There is a line between fantasy and reality that sometimes you should not cross, but i know my Master and He knows me. i trust Him with my life, not just my mind and if He thinks this should happen it will. i trust Him to choose someone who will respect the boundaries Wwe already have and the fact that He will be the Dom in charge; nothing bad will happen, everything will be pre negotiated - i can at any point safeword.

Please feel free to contact me on the other side if you want to.

Gabrielle xx

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 12:25:33 PM

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The amount of trust that you have with your Dominant, should answer your question, just be honest and listen to your instincts...if you can hear over the blood rushing excitement of butterflies!

Personally, I had a blast when it has happened to me...but my trust was great with my Dominant and he doesn't like his toys broken. :)

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 12:28:16 PM

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Do you hold 100% trust and confidence in your master ?Ok if that is Yes then no worries and the butterflies are merely anticipation reactions .I have had multi Dommes working on me and i have to say it is a very good time indeed . My record was 5 Dommes working on me for a prolonged period of time .I hope to one day break that and go for 6

In the end if you can trust Masters Judgment your going to have a blast and just let go and fly ..ENJOY !

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 12:52:28 PM

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i've been in a situation similar to this, only it was dark so i was night blind. i wasn't blindfolded, and i knew the other person involved. i woke up to his touch, then a few minutes later, anothers'. my first reaction was to tense up and move away, but my Dom at the time spoke calmly to me, anticipating my reaction and told me to relax. That it would be alright. i turned my focus on the feel of him, the sound of his voice, and trusted he'd keep me from harm.

Would i willingly go through this again? Yes... i know that my Owner is protecting me. In the end i'd most likely enjoy the experience. But would i do it on my own? Never. i'm just too shy and timid in unfamiliar situations.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 1:12:56 PM

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Yes i trust Him totally, there is not doubt in that.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 2:04:35 PM

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A definite fantasy of mine.

I've done FMM(a few more Ms) but always where I was in control. (I know that may sound weird, 1 girl, multiple guys, but, twas true).

I would like to be tied, blindfolded, and then have the group.

It isn't for everyone, and if it's not you, there's nothing wrong in that. I've been present when a few women tried group/multiple for the first time, and those who weren't 100% sure, tended to enjoy it less. So, I think you have to be sure, and up for it. But that's just my opinion.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 2:17:15 PM

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If you trust in him to protect his property, then-- go for it and enjoy. I know I would.

The one time something similar happened to me (a Domme was allowed to "handle" me at an event)- I was so focused on His voice and touch throughout the experience that she, her hands and implements, just became tools that Master was using on me.

I hope I am explaining this clearly. As long as Master is in control of the scene- anything anyone else does is just an extension of His will; another toy you could say. Well, that's how my mind interprets it, anyway.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 2:19:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddyslilpookie

I would be very cautious if I were you on this because it could ruin your relationship with your Dom in the end. I say this because I was in a similar situation with a Dom and became really jealouse and psycho with me after it happened. Plus the other Dom who was there gave me an explosive orgasm with oral My ex Dom watched the look on his face was I couldn't describe it but it was scary.

After that he threatened me, this guy was crazy. I then had my head in his lap and he pushed my face down into his crotch and he said are you dead yet? I said no, he said he was trying to smother me with his co%^. After that I knew I was in trouble. So I would tread very lightly with this subject, and just be careful because it could backfire on you bigtime. Good luck to you.

I think your ex would have been psycho whether this happened or something else. I really don't think it was that situation that made him go crazy.

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RE: 2 Doms - 4/11/2008 2:34:25 PM

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was this discussed when you were in the initial stages? was this a surprise? seems to Me someone didn't put all the cards on the table--I'd hope a sub would be peod if there wasn't some discussion about this ahead of collaring or ahead of ---surprise--you're with Him tonite!

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