cltcdrd
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ORIGINAL: MistressXD Greetings, submissives and slaves of all types. Here is my rant/question/thing. Background: I'm a dominant woman. I'm looking for a male slave. I have an extensive profile, full of detail about what sort of a person I'm looking for and what he'll be expected to do. I'm specific about wanting someone as strong and as confident as I am. The problem: And yet, about 90% of the messages I receive here are from men who describe themselves as "useless," "unworthy, "a worm," etc. They're all full of that "i" and "You" capitalization stuff I see so frequently in online BDSM forums (tho I suspect that's another topic for another time), and of course, since I declare myself dominant, I get the lucky capitals. You get the drift, no? The question: For those who feel and communicate this way, what gives? Why would I want to spend my time with someone I think is worthless? Why do you think of yourself as... wormly? Worm-like? Wormiful? ;) Do you not think your personal time is better spent bettering yourself so you can feel like a more worthwhile HUMAN BEING, capable of handling another's trust? Or is this some kind of roleplaying thing? I'm totally serious here. I'm baffled. XD Coming from a female submissive view....... I have never, in 20 years, approached another ( in mailings obviously) using the capitalization of letters. Mainly because I believe that there is nothing dominant or submissive about typing letters on a screen :) There are many though that relish the role that online play offers to them. For them, that is the way they "show" their respect. In regards to the immediate degradation of one's own character. I truly believe that they think that this is what is wanted. Either they are brand new to the lifestyle, have been very badly instructed, or have no real time experience what-so-ever. I have yet to meet someone from the lifestyle, on both ends, who was not highly intelligent, strong willed, confident in them selves, and always looking to improve. Most will look for these same qualities when going through their emails and weeding out the "wannabe's".
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