chatondamore
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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx quote:
ORIGINAL: chatondamore Oh, i forgot this one People that assume since my bf is a male, that i'm his submissive and feel they need to ask permission from him to talk to me, or to hand me something. We are both switches, and i don't refer to him as sir, nor do i act in any submissive manner towards him. Please ask about the dynamic before you assume. Me: before I ask one of you to pass the suager, could you tell me what your dynamic is please? You: We are both switches. Me: It's ok, no woriies, I'll go without the suagr thanks..... LOL, i think it's more that people assume that i'm his submissive just because we are there together.
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