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LadiesBladewing -> RE: hi i nee some advice can anybody help me (10/9/2005 9:57:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: sacredheart
hi what it is that i have 2 slaves my first slave is ok but he has a ex mistress blackmailing him saying that the pictures and videos that shes got of him and she will send them into work so that he wont change his profile to say hes owned and that she wants him to go to her my other slave doesnt know wether he wants to be with me eithen though he did until the other day im very confused can somebody give me some advice thank u all all my love sacred heart
First, you need to get a handle on your own situation. If your first slave is having difficulties, you need to focus your energy there, instead of worrying right now about taking on a second responsibility. Second, get evidence of the blackmail. If it is genuinely blackmail, you need to do what you must to protect your slave. This may include involving the authorities, and it may also include things like getting your property -offline-. It may -also- mean things like making plans to deal with what happens if your slave -is- exposed at work. All of this is going to take a great deal of organization and responsibility on -your- part, as well as on the part of your slave, and upheaval of this kind is not the best place/time for bringing new people into the picture.
That brings us to your second slave. Apparently, he is undecided anyway, so this may be a -really- good time to give some space to this, until you've taken care of your first set of responsibilities and he has had some time to decide whether the relationship he is looking at with you is one that he is interested in seriously pursuing.
In the end, you are going to have to pick up and shoulder some heavy-duty responsibility here. It's what comes with taking up control of another person's life, and it can get really messy at times. Verify, validate, assess, plan, then command. Such is the pattern of leadership.
Lady Zephyr
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