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Exquemelin -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 9:33:29 PM)
I was looking for a midget... Who could juggle.... And always wore 5 inch heels.

Lordandmaster -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 9:47:48 PM)
Let me know if you find one. quote: ORIGINAL: Exquemelin I was looking for a midget...

Exquemelin -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 9:56:53 PM)
I said was.

variation30 -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 10:19:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shahla00 What are doms really looking for in a sub? What do you feel the role of a sub should be. um. the perfect woman? ...I'm looking for someone I can mold. I want them to move as I tell them, speak as I tell them, think as I tell them. I want to take them to a soiree and have them move about gracefully and be able to maintain intelligent conversations about Rothbardian ethics, the Goldberg Variations, Szasz's critique on the Medical Model of Mental illness, a defense of Fellini, give friends her (my) recipe for Snapper Grenobloise, etc. in a learned r-less southern dialect. as I've yet to meet an extraordinarily attractive female who can do these things, I, like a young Dr. Frankenstein, will have to make her. at least that's what I'm looking for, it (obviously) varies from person to person.

variation30 -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 10:20:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet We're all different but here are a few things that I expect from my sub. 1. Loyalty 2. Love/devotion 3. A kinky mindset and a desire to fuck every chance we get. I can narrow that list down to 2.

madshysoul -> RE: New Sub with question (4/25/2008 10:35:50 PM)
The Captain likes that I make good coffee.

Leatherist -> RE: New Sub with question (4/26/2008 9:39:24 PM)
Sends you a 55 gallon drum of silly putty.

shahla00 -> RE: New Sub with question (4/27/2008 11:45:20 AM)
That should not be a problem for me...

peppermint -> RE: New Sub with question (4/28/2008 8:29:39 PM)
First thing for anyone to understand is that i don't play the role of a submissive. I am me. What i looked for in a Dom is one who would accept me as me...without roles or playing or pretending. What he found is a companion, friend, submissive, partner.

julietsierra -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 12:57:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SailingBum quote: ORIGINAL: shahla00 What are doms really looking for in a sub? What do you feel the role of a sub should be. Dunno Ill let ya know once I get my dom badge from my cracker jack box. BadOne See, there's your problem. You've been looking for it in the cracker jacks and in truth, you've been missing the series of clues that spell out o-v-a-l-t-i-n-e. Once you get all the letters, you send in your solution and $9.99 and they send back your Dom Badge along with your very own Dom Decoder Ring. juliet

HerLord -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 1:06:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: antipode a) that she doesn't ask stupid questions b) that she puts the subject of her question in the subject line, understanding that that is what subject lines are actually for I am guessing... Not a match.

eyesopened -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 1:47:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shahla00 What are doms really looking for in a sub? What do you feel the role of a sub should be. i'm not a dom but i can give you some advice. The question you should be asking yourself is: "What do I have to offer?" The next question is "What direction do I want to travel?" See, as JohnWarren so beautifully said, no relationship is going to work if people do not have common goals. Common activities don't work in the long haul, common direction, goals, are what keeps a relationship growing. Keep clearly in mind that "Dominant" and "submissive" are adjectives, not nouns, just a shortened way of saying Dominant Person, or submissive person. So when you stop to remember you are talking about people, not icons, the answer to your question should be clearer.

SummerWind -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 6:03:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shahla00 What are doms really looking for in a sub? What do you feel the role of a sub should be. Roast Beef, Swiss, Mustard The role should be fresh baked with seeds.....

MetalMayhem -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 10:00:08 PM)
Oh these posts are soo classic. Listen and do what you are told! Obey me! Cracks me up. In all honesty, in a submissive (or a slave, if you will) I need someone who I can openly communicate with and to be able to trust her completely. Sure the values of Honesty, Loyalty, Respect and Obedience are key in this lifestyle but I need much more than that when looking for a slave. A woman who has a personality and who is quick witted. Someone who isn't going to have a stupid look on her face when I say something sassy and smart. Making me laugh and making me good food is the key to my heart. Ha. Attractive! No, I am not saying that I will only accept bombshells into my household. To me, attractive is whatever the hell I say it is. Yeah, I like thick chicks. Not.. DAYUM!!!!! Thick chicks but you know. Thick. I am currently considering a slave who thinks she is fat and basically not worthy of me. It is unfortunate that she doesn't see what I do. In my eyes she is a sweet looking girl next door. You girls are too hard on yourself. I also need someone who is going to look after me. Sure, it is my job to protect but what about me? I too need that protection and love from a woman. I think its insane when I see men on here acting like they are all big and mighty like they don't need anything emotionally from a woman. I need a woman by my side who is genuine and caring. Romance anyone? Yes, I am a hopeless romantic and I need someone who is too. Just because I bought you roses doesn't mean I am not going to beat you with them later. haha I don't know. I am sure you get the point that there is much more to obedience and respect when finding a slave who fits you perfectly. Fortunately for me, I have already found that woman. [:D] <-- gay smiley Don't listen to these douche bags who say that all you need to do is "listen and do what you are told". I am sure they have a completely different agenda for you later on down the road and if you do end up with one of these guys.. make sure the body bag is at least your favorite color. Lol. M. NIKKI

Othie -> RE: New Sub with question (4/29/2008 11:00:51 PM)
hmm....I'm not sure if this is what you are looking for but being fairly new myself I have asked Doms a question like this, only asking what type of skills they look for in a sub. Most of the answers are like the ones you have seen, but one Dom did tell something rather useful. He told me to think about what roles I enjoy, and I wouldn't mind doing, and then expand on that. For example, some people like to clean, you, if you are looking for a new skill that would make a new Dom happy, could learn A) the best way to clean something or some room, or B) learn how to make your own cleaning supplies. Or maybe you enjoy cooking. You could work on learning new things to cook, or maybe you could learn different affects of different spices, maybe learn how to make your drinks. As you can tell these would be skills that are for outside the bedroom, and not something that would truly reflex your personality, if thats what your looking for, I'm afraid I can't help...

akisha -> RE: New Sub with question (4/30/2008 10:30:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shahla00 What are doms really looking for in a sub? What do you feel the role of a sub should be. That depends on the Dominant. The answers to your questions are as numerous as there are people in the world.

variation30 -> RE: New Sub with question (4/30/2008 11:00:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist Sends you a 55 gallon drum of silly putty. that should do the trick.

Manawyddan -> RE: New Sub with question (5/3/2008 5:56:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MetalMayhem Don't listen to these douche bags who say that all you need to do is "listen and do what you are told". I am sure they have a completely different agenda for you later on down the road and if you do end up with one of these guys.. make sure the body bag is at least your favorite color. I don't think that's fair. If someone asks me a simple, apparently non-introspective question, I usually give a simple, apparently non-introspective answer. That doesn't mean I am not capable of greater subtlety as the discussion develops. Attractive tattoos on the pic, btw, what I am able to see of them.

LordShadow -> RE: New Sub with question (5/3/2008 7:05:40 AM)
Honesty, strength, and intelligence are the first things I look for....I have no use for those with no mind or sense of self.

MrSpectacular -> RE: New Sub with question (5/3/2008 11:07:29 AM)
I want the sub to understand what I want and be comfortable being a sub. That way I can give her what she wants The role is mutually agreed upon - but make it fun!

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