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Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 2:13:04 AM

odinlove

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those ladies into Bondage. By that I mean Slave and Master relationships with a ladies other. I see a lot of girls with the leather and collar and the chain. So being a little nieve and a whole lot realistic. I know girls are horney. So what goes into the sexual fetish with a slave and master. Most importantly what goes into the slave relation ship with other men.
I noticed that some girls are restricted with the amount of affection they can distribute to other 'guys', other than there master. Some girls are into dominatrix and dungeon parties. Some I believe will leave there master for specific reasons to be withother men. So what defines these boundries ladies. How far do thes relationships go. Fetish being what it is, I expect alot of different anwesers. No holds barred. Unrelentless spueing of details here.
BDSM has some weird background sometimes, at least to those who know nothing of it, it is depicted that way. Is there a relation to that? Violence and fear, is there a relation to that also?
All people are different and the sex is always a sticky strong oder.
Help this old boy with his inquiries.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 6:10:45 AM

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I'm sorry, I have no idea what you're trying to ask for here. Do you think you can rephrase?

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 7:19:45 AM

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Speaking of my relationship quite simply my slave goes as far as I want her to go. I set the boundries and limitations as her Master.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 7:26:14 AM

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those ladies into Bondage. By that I mean Slave and Master relationships with a ladies other. I see a lot of girls with the leather and collar and the chain. So being a little nieve and a whole lot realistic. I know girls are horney. So what goes into the sexual fetish with a slave and master. Most importantly what goes into the slave relation ship with other men.

Huh? Can you decode this, please? I can't answer a question when I'm not even sure what the question is.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 8:07:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce
Huh? Can you decode this, please? I can't answer a question when I'm not even sure what the question is.

Even my Twue Dominate Decoder Ring doesn't work on this one. I get the feeling it's "tell me about BDSM" but I'm not sure ... in any case the answer to that would be longer than a book.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 9:17:19 AM

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From what i got of the Op post, people were supposed to reveal the most intimate and personal details of their BDSM experiences, particularly submissive women. i am a bit annoyed that someone thinks that by asking, anyone is under an obligation to make such revelations. And yes, i had to guess at what the Op wanted.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 10:40:04 AM

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i am kind of thinking that he is trying to draw a line between a bit of fetish play, and all-out Master-slave relationship. he mentions the type of person who would ditch their Master to f**k around.

i think he's looking for a linear chart from liking the leather-wearing-slap-and-tickle to the most extreme form of submission/servitude/consensual slavery. ummmmmm... closest thing i ever saw was the "Nine Levels of Submission," but oh, how many variants are there when a relationship is beyond the fetish and sexual?

and one can always have a utterly owned and devoted slave until the day he or she starts to feel restless. that goes with non BDSM relationships, too. We find fickle everywhere.

Maybe he wants to know what to expect. But i am kind of with pinkpleasures. That would take a lot of delving into the deepest, most private parts of individuals' relationships.

This is all my speculation after having read it a few times, though. i could be wrong.

If i am right: odinlove, i would suggest that you read profiles of women on the other side. Read them, don't necessarily write every one. Just see what different women have to say about what they are into, looking for, and involved in. A lot of people put a great deal into their profiles, and you can learn alot about the different types of submission, by just observing. i don't think there is any way to pin down and describe the vast number of dynamics in what it is we do. Just like there is no way you can walk down a typical suburban street and tell what kind of relationship goes on in each of the houses you pass, without peeping in their windows or polling them door to door... And that doesn't work very well, does it?

And JohnWarren... that ring... goodness, the things a [insert bottom-type title here] could learn about [insert gender here] [insert top-type Title here] using that!

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 11:22:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

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those ladies into Bondage. By that I mean Slave and Master relationships with a ladies other. I see a lot of girls with the leather and collar and the chain. So being a little nieve and a whole lot realistic. I know girls are horney. So what goes into the sexual fetish with a slave and master. Most importantly what goes into the slave relation ship with other men.

Huh? Can you decode this, please? I can't answer a question when I'm not even sure what the question is.

Guess I have lived in too many foreign countries where english wasn't much used. To me he is asking how farthe sub/slave sexual relationship goes, basically does she f**k around. He wants details I presume because he is looking for wank material....

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 11:47:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: WickedKev

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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

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those ladies into Bondage. By that I mean Slave and Master relationships with a ladies other. I see a lot of girls with the leather and collar and the chain. So being a little nieve and a whole lot realistic. I know girls are horney. So what goes into the sexual fetish with a slave and master. Most importantly what goes into the slave relation ship with other men.

Huh? Can you decode this, please? I can't answer a question when I'm not even sure what the question is.

Guess I have lived in too many foreign countries where english wasn't much used. To me he is asking how farthe sub/slave sexual relationship goes, basically does she f**k around. He wants details I presume because he is looking for wank material....

Greetings,

I too thought that he was asking about the boundaries of a slave or submissives sexual encounters.

For me its simple my Master sets those limits for me. If I "play" with another as well as the circumstance which I may "play". If he grants that he can revoke that any time it pleases him even mid-scene.

Kevin Sir,
I laughed when I read "he is looking for wank material".

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 8:52:10 PM

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I know girls are horney

Yep. Many of them seem to be.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/12/2005 10:09:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: odinlove

I know girls are horney.

Yes, i play the sax.

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So what goes into the sexual fetish with a slave and master. Most importantly what goes into the slave relation ship with other men.

They enjoy having their sexuality controlled...?

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I noticed that some girls are restricted with the amount of affection they can distribute to other 'guys', other than there master. Some girls are into dominatrix and dungeon parties. Some I believe will leave there master for specific reasons to be withother men. So what defines these boundries ladies. How far do thes relationships go.

Some have the freedom to have sex with others, some do not. They go as far as they go....?

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BDSM has some weird background sometimes, at least to those who know nothing of it, it is depicted that way. Is there a relation to that? Violence and fear, is there a relation to that also?

Yes they think it's all whips n chains. Any kink is 'weird' to a nonkinker. Anything weird is unknown and occaisionally feared.

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All people are different and the sex is always a sticky strong oder.
Help this old boy with his inquiries.

Change lubes?

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/13/2005 2:19:16 PM

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man i may be totally NEW to this, but even i can tell He is a phsych major with a paper due..............LAMAO
or is writting a tell all book the lazy way????

giggles...hey, i AM catching ion here.*proud of myself*

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/14/2005 3:16:02 AM

odinlove

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I seance a lot of unknown for me in this forum. I asked the same question elsewhere and got completly different responses. WOW, go figure. So any way thanks for the mystery responses. I have read some post and learned alittel on the perspective. I stil do not truely fathum Dom and sub relations, seeing how there is a certain trend of switching doms and subs alike. I learned about BDSM and fetish in that repect is imortant and only go as far as one would really want, at least in my case without affending the the under. A lot of people did not know how to respond to me? I got individual responses elsewhere. That was a grip of advice. Love it and cherish it. Keep adding to this thread and would still like to elaborate further. Also the fact that not to many people know me here is a call. I am new and have not yet found my significant other or partner as I shall say. I am working on some goals.

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RE: Stories of Ladies and Masters - 10/14/2005 10:13:41 AM

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The realtionship between a Master and sub is what they make it. Some do it occationally as bedroom play. Some do it purely as servitude, cleaning the house and being the perfect 50's house wife, with normal 2005 sexual standards in the bedroom. There is no one type of submission and control.

Best bet is to look at what kind of slave you want to be. Do you want to be controlled in all aspects, care for your Domme in all things even financial and let her be a pampered queen? Or do you want to be the man of the house except for in the bedroom? Best ways to get ideas on what fits you best is your fantasies, reading webpages with detailed information about Domination and submission and going from there...not building it from a collective of what 'other people do.'

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