have him keep talking and talking and talking about them inadvertinly........it worked for me and now there are forms of pain that i cant get enough of........wont go into detail though but, the list is growing by the minuet.
~meticulous~
Pickles1995 -> RE: Fears (5/18/2008 3:22:53 PM)
I didn't go into the specific details of what my major fears are because I was embarrased about a couple of them. I'd rather go into that part in private discussion.
Justme696 -> RE: Fears (5/18/2008 3:24:14 PM)
a first step to encounter your fears..is to learn to mention them. know thy enemy (or so)
bipolarber -> RE: Fears (5/18/2008 4:38:05 PM)
There's a problem here... how do we know your Master WANTS you to get over them? For all we know, part of his thrill may be seeing you a little "freaked out" at the prospect of what's about to happen. (Not exatly my kink... but I've met plenty of Dom/sadists that get off on a sub's conflicted fear: "I want to do this for him... but I'm scared spitless..."
Pickles1995 -> RE: Fears (5/18/2008 6:43:34 PM)
Doesn't mean I'm going to share very personal things with total and complete strangers.