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RE: submissive ...... slut or saint? - 8/19/2005 8:52:11 AM   
night101owl


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Status: offline 		I don't believe there is one "pure" form of submissive. Some draw from Judeo-Christian hetero gender-based roles. Others draw from military hierarchy. There are many sources.

At the same time, it's the stereotype of hetero gender-based roles that leads me to avoid identifying myself as submissive (preferring "bottom" and "masochist"), although there is certainly a lot of submission in what I do. I am also a girl, because I love the dynamics of Daddy/girl, and I'm a slut, because I like to revel in my enjoyment of sexuality.

But you also seem to be asking what is kinky. Anything that deviates from mainstream pop-culture sexual culture is kink, regardless of how they deviate.

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RE: submissive ...... slut or saint? - 8/19/2005 9:12:45 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Is submission something perverse?


if this is how you define perverse, then NO

1. Directed away from what is right or good; perverted.
2. Obstinately persisting in an error or fault; wrongly self-willed or stubborn.
3. Marked by a disposition to oppose and contradict.
Arising from such a disposition.
4. Cranky; peevish.

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is submission about sex or about giving?


there are some who only submit in a sexual connotation and some who submit in every other way but NO sex, and some who do both.

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What kind of submissive are you?


TOTAL. this slave has submitted every facet of her life to her relationship with Master, hence the use of the word slave.

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Is there a "sterotype"?


sure there is, and then there are those that purposely go out of their way to blow that stereotype out of the water---whatever floats yer boat!



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