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Dnomyar -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:19:26 AM)

OK while we are on the subject I have  questions. How many times do you expect to be told that your loved. When does it become something to say just to shut you up. Sorry for the bluntness.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:31:18 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

OK while we are on the subject I have  questions. How many times do you expect to be told that your loved. When does it become something to say just to shut you up. Sorry for the bluntness.


It really has nothing to do with that. Believe me. I probably have to ask one of my homegirls the question I am trying to get the answer to without coming out and saying it.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:36:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: OmegaG

Does it matter if he "loves" you or that he treats you in a manner which makes you happy?  Is it good enough that he wants you in his life and that he will care enough about you and your happiness that he will be mindful of your state of mind?

Love is such a fluid word that it really can mean different things to different people.  I know people who use it flippantly and I know others who take it very seriously, so I guess I'm not so much into someone declaring their love for me but I dig that they show me that I am an intragal part of their life.


No it doesnt. I guess I am trying to find out if others see as code in certain kinds of carresses or glances without giving away the secret of what I see in certain motions by the male of  species. I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret  give away is.



LaTigresse -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:37:56 AM)

I am a weirdo. I don't really question whether or not people love me. I am an actions kind of person. If someone can put up with me for any length of time, even when I am being an ass, they have got to love me.

If I am in a really assy mood and I still want you around..........I love you.



blissy -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:42:02 AM)

my past Master - 16 months into the relationship - totally shut me out for nearly 3 weeks, no ims, no texts, no calls, nothing....i am not someone that lets things go so i text him hundreds of times literally begging him to tell me why he decided to shut me out, he told me he'd fallen for me, within 2 weeks i was on a plane bound for Ireland, spent two wonderful days with him, left we said our goodbyes... he let me know a few days later that indeed his feelings were right but as neither of us were willing to move to where the other was, it ended. the rest is history. wow..that felt a lil raw on my nerve...wah wah wah blah lol



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:46:10 AM)

I confess to being slightly boggled....it's been a long damn time since anyone loved me like that, and the non-fucked part of it didn't last all that long.  I will pay close attention in future, though!



blissy -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 11:48:55 AM)

i hope nobody ever loves me that much again. ever! which i dont think will happen cos i doubt i'll let them!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 12:01:42 PM)

I do.  Absolute devotion.



Siesumi -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 12:33:28 PM)

God, where to start?  Master and I have known each other 3 years...but because at the time, I was collared, He said nothing to me about wanting me for His own...He would never go after a collared slave, it's not His way...so when I was released, I went looking for Him, remembering the way He made me feel, even online...He would not collar without a rt meet and frankly, after having been burned in the past, I would not want to be collared without a rt meet either...I spent 2 glorious weeks with Him and my fg and at the end, I signed a year contract with Him...however, leading up to those 2 weeks and even now, since then, we spend nearly 2 hours on the phone, talking about the day and so on, even after having spoken online...Master was the first one to say the words "I love you"...to say I was shocked would be an understatement, as I never thought His feelings would go that far...we say the words several times a day...but more than the words, it's the caring He shows, it's the way, when I visited, that (and I found out AFTER the fact!) He would stand in the doorway and just watch me sleep, unable to believe that I was really there, really part of His life...He told me He is in love with me, and for the first time in my life, I believe the words because of the look in His eyes, because of a million different things He does and says that just makes my heart bubble up and over with the love I have in my heart for Him



TwoNYCDommes -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 12:33:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I guess I am trying to find out if others see as code in certain kinds of carresses or glances without giving away the secret of what I see in certain motions by the male of  species. I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret  give away is.


Why are you trying to avoid saying what you think it is?



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 12:48:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TwoNYCDommes

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I guess I am trying to find out if others see as code in certain kinds of carresses or glances without giving away the secret of what I see in certain motions by the male of  species. I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret  give away is.



Why are you trying to avoid saying what you think it is?


Cause you are a man. i would have to kill you after I told you![sm=axe.gif]
Sorry. There are some things I wont give away in my secret woman knowlege.

edited to say: sorry I misread your name. I am talking to my friends about it on the other side. 



gypsygrl -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 1:19:59 PM)

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I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret give away is.


WTF?!?  Are there secret handshakes?  And people wonder why I dont do the love thing. 

If it has to be in code, I dont want any part of it.

(Sorry for being abrupt.)



blissy -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 1:38:14 PM)

thank you.



abcbsex -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 1:45:18 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

OK while we are on the subject I have questions. How many times do you expect to be told that your loved. When does it become something to say just to shut you up. Sorry for the bluntness.


For me, when I was actually ready to hear it, I couldn't hear it enough.

If it gets to the point where it replaces actual conversation, Alpha and I will have a little talk.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 1:58:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: gypsygrl

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I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret give away is.


WTF?!?  Are there secret handshakes?  And people wonder why I dont do the love thing. 

If it has to be in code, I dont want any part of it.

(Sorry for being abrupt.)



No its  not abrupt. I am not insulted. I am amused!



lusciouslips19 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 2:00:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: abcbsex


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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

OK while we are on the subject I have questions. How many times do you expect to be told that your loved. When does it become something to say just to shut you up. Sorry for the bluntness.


For me, when I was actually ready to hear it, I couldn't hear it enough.

If it gets to the point where it replaces actual conversation, Alpha and I will have a little talk.


yea, when its used instead of answering a question its just manipulation.



gypsygrl -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 2:04:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

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ORIGINAL: gypsygrl

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I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret give away is.


WTF?!?  Are there secret handshakes?  And people wonder why I dont do the love thing. 

If it has to be in code, I dont want any part of it.

(Sorry for being abrupt.)



No its  not abrupt. I am not insulted. I am amused!


Ok, good.  :)

Sorry, I can't help you with your question.  I don't know the code.



gypsygrl -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 2:07:06 PM)

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Alpha and I will have a little talk.


I betcha he love's those little talks.

"Honey, we need to have a talk" can never be a good thing. :)



daddysliloneds -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 3:58:56 PM)

nope, you're wrong; eating your pussy is not his way of telling you that he loves you!!!!!!!!!![:D][;)]...

is that what you were getting at?

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

quote:

ORIGINAL: gypsygrl

quote:

I dont know how to be clear without letting on what I think the secret give away is.


WTF?!?  Are there secret handshakes?  And people wonder why I dont do the love thing. 

If it has to be in code, I dont want any part of it.

(Sorry for being abrupt.)



No its  not abrupt. I am not insulted. I am amused!



MissSepphora1 -> RE: Signs of love (5/12/2008 4:14:07 PM)

There was a man I was engaged to.  He was not a sub but he was a bottom.  His favorite word to me was no.  I could ask him if the sky was blue and he would say no.  I had to break up with him and start dating before he even decided to ask me to marry him.
Anyway, he came up in conversation a few weeks ago, and the other person made the comment, I remember him.  He would have done anything for you.  When I knew that he actually did very little for me, and most everything he did was for the "experience."
From the outside everything looks different.  Maybe there is a reason we can't read each other's minds.  I consider it a blessing.



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