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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/4/2005 8:55:27 PM

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Hello All,
I'm very bummed out. My friend forgot to bring home some betadine so I still will have to wait longer before I get to try this.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

i'm sorry things didn't work out for you this time, but hopefully you won't have to wait too long. i'd love to hear how things go when you do.

i wish you well.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/5/2005 11:44:14 PM

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We're not supposed to put q tips in our ears either, nothing bigger than the elbo is safe to put in your ear.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/6/2005 1:16:11 AM

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I really think a womans G-spot is the outer surface of the urethra tube area.

Umm the g spot is inside the vagina on the top "wall of it" if you will

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/7/2005 5:51:28 AM

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I have seen ureathra plugs for males but not females. Some are true plugs while others have a hole through them to allow fluid to pass. Is there any interest in something like this for females?

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/8/2005 4:23:49 PM

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Actually since (as you put it) the g spot is located on the top wall of the vagina... the urethra (which sits above the vagina ) can also be a way of stimulating it. To my knowledge no one has been able to document exactly where it is, so it is impossible to say that the urethra does not also run along it like the vagina does.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/9/2005 9:58:08 AM

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I would think the amount of stimulation you would have to do to reach the g-spot through the urethra could do some serious damage to the urethra. Unless that's what you're after, I wouldn't.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/9/2005 10:11:08 AM

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well of course...I'm not saying it should be done. But for all technical purposes it could most likely be done.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/9/2005 6:25:34 PM

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i had someone ask me by im to please put quitps in his insdie of his penis i must say this made my skin crawl i told him no and he knew it made me upset he said" oh please push it in farther i am not to condmed anyone for something they like but that is something i found so ckind crawling to me. to each it own i guess but it is truly safe i had to block him from iming me or writing me it just made my skin crawld for some reason maybe it was the way it said it or something i find some of the males on aol do thing to shock and they know it is shocking so they will do it over and over.. i am so happy to be here this is a sane place now remember i am not dwonign anyone who does this it is just not for me

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/10/2005 8:25:28 AM

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Q-tips are not slippery and I think would be uncomfortable. A Q-tip sounds like a small tampon butt plug for the ureathra. Most everything that is for medical puropses is very smooth and polished. If it doesnt slide freely it would tend to irritate.

Just my 2cents

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/10/2005 9:29:35 PM

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What???? QTips????

An actual *doctor* said this?

Why not use something that was designed for urethral play, like urethral sounds, for gods sake?

At least they can be sterilized, won't be leaving pieces of themselves inside you and are actually MEANT for urethral insertion.

Sorry the guy doesn't sound like he really has any idea of how to do urethral play - doctor or not. At least not IMO.

Being an MD doesn't necessarily make them wiser, BTW. Most docs don't do their own cath'ing, nurses tend to do it. And just like how a phlebotomist can draw blood smoothly and yet doctors can make you shriek in agony, those who do it the most tend to know a little more about it.

I've heard some MDs suggest some really wacky stuff and all I could do was sit there and wonder if they honestly practice that way and how I will never willingly put myself in their care.

And beware too of those who call themselves doctor way too freely. If you stuck a qtip into your urethra and cotton stayed in and was either pushed into your bladder or was the cause of an infection that lands you in a hospital, he is setting himself to be sued. Most docs know that and don't throw out medical advice willy nilly. That and I've met a few *coff* self claimed doctors that had NO medical experience or training besides what they saw on tv and read on the internet and what they created in their heads.

Urethral play has risks, is common and there is a wealth of information avialable out there. Do't go off one guys words, or even mine, do your homework, and educate yourself on this - it really is the best and safest way, IMO.

Rice, qtips, pencils, screwdrivers, bbs, uncooked noodles, antennias, etc etc really should never be placed in the urethra, if you decide to do it, it's a lot more risky than if you just went with sounds.

Also realize that you CAN puncture the bladder or the urethral lining, which can cause furher problems that may have long term health consequences.

Just my two cents.

That's why it's called "A Practice". Damn Doctors do more praticing than anything.

But One thing my mom use to always tell me. Doctor will always say... Ooooops!
Just as the same now a days, doctors have more junkies hooked that the guy in the street corner. And yes, i'm one of them. I spent over a year on morphine after my back surgery for pain. And the past 2 years on Methadone to treat the morphine addiction and the pain.

So yall be damn careful when a Doctor tells you something. As they say, Get a 2nd, 3rd opinion!

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/11/2005 6:37:35 AM

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I really think a womans G-spot is the outer surface of the urethra tube area.

Umm the g spot is inside the vagina on the top "wall of it" if you will

Hello there,
Yes, exactly my point. Your urethra canal is the other side of the wall. That's why I have the feeling it's actually the nerves in your urethra that cause all those wonderful G-spot sensations.
sub suzanne

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 12/30/2005 10:58:40 PM

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hi plantlady,
I'm a nurse. i have some concerns about uretheral play that i want to share. It's common to use uretheral sounds? Anything that is not flexible and is stiff such as a sound you run the risk of puncturing tissue. Q-tips? i'd be concerned about that cotton tip at the end, and again, q-tips are stiff and could puncture. I've catheterized a hundred, no, probably a thousand folks in my time and i'd still be nervous about introducing something stiff. Why not use the flexible red rubber catheters? the diameter is smaller and there is pretty much no chance of injury. But they are disposable b/c you can't resterilize them.
also, i've seen folks who have been catherized repeatedly loose some bladder control.
There is a ring of muscle in the urethra that gets stretched out and causes leakage. it can be difficult to get control back. Also, scar tissue on the inside of the urethra or prostate can impede the normal flow of urine and leaves urine sitting in the bladder, which can easily become infected (regardless that people may say urine is sterile, a bladder full of urine is warm and dark and a breeding ground for bacteria). Sorry to sound all doom and gloom but the potential consequences of uretheral play just doesnt sound worth it.
i want you to play safe, so let me know what you decide to do.
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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 1/3/2006 1:40:24 PM

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Hello Crazytwice,
I still think it sounds hot, but I still have not tried it yet.
I'm beyond thinking a Q-tip would work and am considering sounds. I thought maybe Santa would bring them for Crristmas, but not this year.
I had one male nurse friend offer to do the cath, but when I arrived at his home he'd forgotten the betadine so we didn't do it.
This isn't something I'd want to do often, but I do want to try it just to see what it's like for myself.
If I ever get to try it I will write my experiences here I promise.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 1/3/2006 2:43:36 PM

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Hi Plantlady,

I've never been catheterized but I do know that when I've done it to others, it can be accompanied by a big OUCH. I try to relax them first, that helps.

Let me know if you ever venture "into" that area and how it works out.

CT

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 1/8/2006 12:40:49 PM

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suzanne,

You have mail.

trj

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 1/10/2006 3:59:15 AM

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suzanne,

You have mail.

trj

Hi trj,
I read your mail but can't answer you. It's been 3 weeks since my sent messages in here make it to the recipient. Thanks for the notes and I do appreciate you sharing your experience with me.
Sincerely,
sub suzanne

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 3/13/2006 1:09:39 AM

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I understand and appreciate the spirit in which this post was made, but am dubious.
That a doctor would recommend "Q-Tips" is nothing short of appalling to me.

Sounds were designed for this purpose and they are autoclaveable.
They do not leave behind fibers and can - and must - be sterilized.

I wonder if this guy was a real doctor.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 3/13/2006 1:17:11 AM

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... It seems female pee hole insertions are not that common.
What had prompted the whole thing is I'd seen the girl who'd taken the dildo. I though WOW, that looks hot...

Urethral play with women is far riskier than with men. Female urethras are much, much shorter than male urethras, increasing risk of UTIs and bladder infections.

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 3/21/2006 6:19:40 AM

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Does anyone have any first hand experience with UP in females?

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RE: Warning About Urethra Play Male or Female - 4/11/2006 5:14:42 PM

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Using q-tips for insertion in the urethra or the ears is risking a trip to the doctors. The only time a swab should be inserted into the urethra is by a medical professional for the purpose of obtaining a specimen. There is never a need to steralize catheters, they are sold very enexpensively, per se', on the net under fetish medical supplies. Do not use q-tips, sharpies or anything that can't be steralized. Autoclaves are expensive, but this is the best way to steralize sounds. In medical emergencies, a pressure cooker can be used. I've seen where 10% bleach is also used with the pressure cooker. Please note that they are in no way as good as an autoclave. The temperatures reached in an autoclave are much, much higher than a pressure cooker, a pressure cooker reaches much higher temperatures than trying to steralize using a pot of boiling water. Touch the sounds as little as possible before insertion.
Women are able to be stretched more than men. Sorry, that's about all the info I have about insertion into the female.
The hardest part of the penis to be stretched is the tip. and during insertion, you have to be careful not to have the outside trying to be pushed in. Just spread the tip open to expose the inside, hold open and insert the sound. There may be a bit of stinging at the tip and a bit of resistance in the 1st 3 inches. Never ever force. Relaxing and a small amount of very very gentle twisting, easing it downward and straight in. After you've past the 1st 3 inches of restrictive muscles, it opens up and is much easier, the sound enters with just gravity. There can be slight burning later during urination. Otherwise, it should be painless and you should play in a manner that it does NOT have pain associated with it, until you get to know that part of your body, as you can cause injury without knowing it, if you are rough.
LUBE, LUBE, LUBE.
If for any reason you have dropped your sound, they've clanged together or for any other reason, make sure you check your sounds for any burrs. You should keep a piece of material around for this specific reason. Ever had material that even your bare skin kind of dragged on, if it was rough? Use this material to check your sounds. Then go moisturize your rough skin.
Let it be known, that even under ideal conditions, with an autoclave etc. there is still the risk of infection. Let it also be known, that this type of play can be considered pure heaven.

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