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steffie -> ClubFEM Manhattan (5/13/2008 8:58:08 PM)
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Through people on CM i became involved in the local NYC chapter of ClubFEM (females enslaving males).
Under the auspices of an excellent leader, Ms Reina Darkness, the group got off to a very good strong start in about February of this year. The group meets the first Saturday of every month in the back room of a restaurant on 22nd Street.
Average attendence is in the range of 20-30 people, evenly split between Dominant women and submissive males.
Usually there is a theme or a demo. Previous parties have toyed with flogging, strapons, sissies, and pony play. There's only been four meetings so far, but they've all been great! Made primarily that way by the nice, friendly, positive, fun people in attendence.
Ms Reina is great. She sets the tone, and makes everyone feel welcome, by being upbeat, and leading with intelligence, and just the right mix of seriousness and playfulness.
Just to mention a couple of standard features of the parties...
The ClubFEM play parties last from 8-midnight. About 8:30 p.m. or so, Ms Reina will announce that the party has officially started - meaning the submissive males in attendence must get into their required uniform: either a black and red athletic supporter (the kind that covers the penis, but leaves the bottom bare. Or, men must wear a tuxedo.
At the first couple of meetings a few nervous submisisve males wore tux's... but not any longer. The men are all now wear the ClubFEM "uniform" while the ladies wear whatever they like.
There is no sex during the parties... just BDSM style play... thought that has included a butt plug here or a strapon getting inserted there. But most use the time to paddle the men's bottoms with a WIDE variety of different paddles, floggers, crops, canes... you name it, the Ladies bring it... including a portable wooden horse to bend and restrain their subbies over.
They also hold a monthly munch at a restaurant in the city to screen prospective males.
Males admitted to the party are required to bring a food dish or beverage (non-alcoholic). Cost = $20 Dommes, $30 submissive males, $40 couple (part of which pays for the room).
The Ladies hold a regular "Board of Discipline." The Women are encouraged to punish their submissives in front of the group for any infractions that may have occurred during the past week. Someone always get beat. And as the majority of the males appear mascochists... they love it just as much as the Women.
My own personal involvement... mm... i'm one of the few TS's there, so have been given some leeway. I've gotten away with wearing what i want, and after an hour or so will change into some skimpy lingerie.
Going to the parties has given me all new reasons to visit Victoria's Secrets... which has been fun. I love lingerie. And i'm extremely conservative about public play, so just strutting around in garter belts, stockings and a merry widow, is a great cheap thrill for me. lol
As of the last party, Ms Reina has also made me the groups DJ - which is great. Had a lot of fun being in charge of the tunes last time. For the pony play demo i brought Bruce Springsteen's acoustical Pony Boy and Chubby Checker's Pony Time. Am looking forward to making some disks for the next party in June.
The Divine Ms M. is going to give a demo, on single tails i think. The perfect time for When the Whip Comes Down by the Stones...
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