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BrokenSaint -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/17/2008 6:55:56 AM)
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Oooookay holy fuck. I was going to respond individually to alot of parts of this thread quoting and such. But the more I read, the more I found I wanted to respond to. So I'm just going to do one, then put some general thoughts out there.
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ORIGINAL: bestbabync
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick
So the OP resurrected their three-month old thread just to pick a fight with RedMagic and others??? Okayyyyyyyyyy.
Cali
i did not mean to pick a fight. but i do wonder why others are so abusive & hateful here. why do people find humor & comfort in insulting and demeaning others? i have found alot of friends here on CM, but the mean hateful people keep showing up more & more!
i thought the thread got lost or something. i never recieved emails alerting me to all the post that carried into june. when i was changing/deleting my subscriptions, i found the thread with all the hateful post!
Yeaaah, all the hateful posts. Are you really sure they're all that hateful? Your version of hateful, and my own personal version of hateful seem to differ quite a bit. This is the internet. The awesome thing about the internet, is that anyone can access it and post information on it! The shitty thing about the internet, is that anyone can access it and post information on it! That's just the way it goes. Will you find rude people on the internet? I don't know, do you find them in life? People are also a bit more forthcoming with their opinions when they live several hundred miles away. Of course that's possibly my favorite thing about the net. For the record though, if you think any of the posts in this thread are particularly hateful, you really need to take a look around the web and see actually vitriol. Go check out some flame wars where people end up wishing for some rare form of cancer to befall the person and several generations of their descendants. Now that, is hateful. Some of us are ornery fucks, go figure y'know? We're people, not saints. Hell, some people even come across as alot more rude than they're actually trying to be. You lose alot in text after all. A literal ton.
In reference to your profile I'll say a pic of your body would be a better idea to put up than just a grainy webcam shot of your tits. Seriously. You'll probably have alot better luck with finding a dom if you do. I'm well aware sometimes people don't like to post alot of pics due to reasons of hiding their identity etc. However most of those problems can be avoided just by being careful, selecting an atypical nick for yourself etc. This for example is not the nick I usually go by. I created it especially for here. But I'm starting to get a bit tangential.
As for the question of bbw subs. Some people like it, some people don't. It's like that in every single human being on the face of this planet, with every single thing that exists. Personally unless it's a severe amount of weight, I don't particularly care. I'm primarily attracted by other means. I'm also rather odd though. A bigger turnoff I find is when bbw's go the whole well you're not interested in me because of my weight! That one would automatically assume that is indicative of deeper issues. I may just not be interested in you because you came off whiny, or just did not seem interesting, etc. There are a plethora of reasons why someone may not respond to a message you send out. They may have even just started dating someone. Not to mention some people (and don't feel like I'm particularly referencing you in this paragraph, I'm not) get offended when you read the mail, and don't immediately respond. I've heard that from dom's and subs alike on here that I've met. It's like okay, yes, I opened it. But people have lives, and are not going to drop everything just to respond at that moment. That in and of itself tends to be a turnoff. If someone sends me a message bitching about how I never responded, chances are I'm going to explain why (because I'm a busy guy, and didn't have time to sit down and write a thoughtful noncanned response), and then tell them off for bitching at me, or being all defensive for no reason. Honestly I tend to tell people to take that as a good sign if I don't automatically respond (that I did respond right away is usually because I was sitting at the pc otherwise unoccupied, which is not too common). Means I read it, and I want the time to sit down, and enjoy myself when I'm writing back. But I'm ranting now about another topic :D
In any case, drop the injured oh this site is a place for meanies attitude. You're talking to adults. Conduct yourself as such. We don't shit puppies and piss rainbows. Yes some of us are not nice people. Not everyone you meet in life is nice. You really do need to just deal with it. I'm well aware of how most of my post will be taken. Am I being rude? No. Blunt? Yes. I'm very blunt in general, so are many people here. I'm also not lying, and giving advice. So are most of them I'd imagine. Consider it as being helpful, as that is what it is in most cases. Really I've actually found the exact opposite from what you think this forum is composed of. Most of the people here are alarmingly nice if I look at the whole thing as a bell curve, and very helpful. Like, way way way way way outside of what I'd consider normal net behavior. One of the reasons I like it here.
Though I'd love to see this taken in the sense it was written, rather than grr another rude person. It is not an attempt to be rude. Though I can be quite sarchastic, it's more a matter of entertaining while I'm talking, than any rudeness. I'd gather some people here are already quite familiar with that.
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