BBWnNC72
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Joined: 6/22/2007 From: NC since Jan of 2007, but born and raised in Cali Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: allie1027 I'm on the other end of this, but I figured I would give it a shot anyway. I was in a relationship with a dominant man, (it wasn't as strict as it could have been) and we enjoyed a bit of pain play. He was quite sadistic at the beginning, so I was thrilled. I was thinking, "great...this man could really put me in my place." So...6 months down the road...it turns out his feelings got in the way. There was no whipping, face slapping, nothing new...there was nothing. When I asked him about it..he said he couldn't bear to see me cry, and that he cared about me too much to hurt me. In his case...he had a very hard time inflicting "pleasurable pain" because of love. Allie THAT is what is happening with my Dominant and i. He said He has not given up trying to be what He was before He developed His feelings for me.
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